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At 6:52pm on October 13, 2010, Lily Judd said…
Thank you for reaching out to me. I appreciate it. I'll have to look into it and see what I can find. I'll let you know. Thanx again.
At 7:05pm on October 12, 2010, Jennifer Padovan said…
Gary,

I think I would like to tell you about how this began with my son. But I tried to send it to you but I had to many characters in. If we could talk I would like for you to email me directly scotjen666@yahoo.com
At 7:05pm on October 12, 2010, Jennifer Padovan said…
Gary,

I think I would like to tell you about how this began with my son. But I tried to send it to you but I had to many characters in. If we could talk I would like for you to email me directly scotjen666@yahoo.com
At 7:02pm on October 12, 2010, Jennifer Padovan said…
Gary,

I think I would like to tell you about how this began with my son. I need to get this of my chest. When my son was five he started playing ice hockey. Let me tell you he was so amazing on those ice skates. It was like he was born skating. Did not learn that from me thats for sure. Well anyway this child would get so early in the mornings on weekends cause the games were far away or they just needed to be there cause the started at 8:00 am in the morning. Justin's whole life was based on Hockey. Believe me when I tell you the arguments that me and my ex husband had was not good. This childs life was not his own I believe it was based on what his Dad never had. I will say at a time he loved it but he was never able to be a kid. Then there was my Dad and my father in law they went to ever game he had. When my time had bpasssed Justin was hurting really bad but he always had my father in law to fall back on and when he passed it all started spairaling down words. I tried everything I could to talk to him but it just did not matter. sO OF COURSE jUSTIN'S DAD AND i GOT A DIVORCE BECAUSE WE JUST DID NOT GET ALONG ANYMORE HE HATED ME FOR THAT i BELIEVE. Well anyway he stayed with me but he was drinking and doing drugs but he was still playing iCE HOCKEY. i WOULD ASK HIM WERE HE WAS GOING he would just lie to me . One night I will never forget I was up all night waiting for him he finally called me in a panaic telling me to come and get him but he had no idea were he he was . I was freaking out I told him to ask some one where he was I was going to call him a car service to get him. Well anyway he was in Pa in the mountains the car service never hear of it. I was on the phone with him crying and screaming with him how could you do this. Well the next day came and I told him I have rules in this house and I need you to follow them he would not even do that . So he moved in with his Dad his dad was to busy with his new girlfriend at the time so he got to do what eve
At 7:01pm on October 12, 2010, Jennifer Padovan said…
Gary,

I think I would like to tell you about how this began with my son. I need to get this of my chest. When my son was five he started playing ice hockey. Let me tell you he was so amazing on those ice skates. It was like he was born skating. Did not learn that from me thats for sure. Well anyway this child would get so early in the mornings on weekends cause the games were far away or they just needed to be there cause the started at 8:00 am in the morning. Justin's whole life was based on Hockey. Believe me when I tell you the arguments that me and my ex husband had was not good. This childs life was not his own I believe it was based on what his Dad never had. I will say at a time he loved it but he was never able to be a kid. Then there was my Dad and my father in law they went to ever game he had. When my time had bpasssed Justin was hurting really bad but he always had my father in law to fall back on and when he passed it all started spairaling down words. I tried everything I could to talk to him but it just did not matter. sO OF COURSE jUSTIN'S DAD AND i GOT A DIVORCE BECAUSE WE JUST DID NOT GET ALONG ANYMORE HE HATED ME FOR THAT i BELIEVE. Well anyway he stayed with me but he was drinking and doing drugs but he was still playing iCE HOCKEY. i WOULD ASK HIM WERE HE WAS GOING he would just lie to me . One night I will never forget I was up all night waiting for him he finally called me in a panaic telling me to come and get him but he had no idea were he he was . I was freaking out I told him to ask some one where he was I was going to call him a car service to get him. Well anyway he was in Pa in the mountains the car service never hear of it. I was on the phone with him crying and screaming with him how could you do this. Well the next day came and I told him I have rules in this house and I need you to follow them he would not even do that . So he moved in with his Dad his dad was to busy with his new girlfriend at the time so he got to do what eve
At 11:22am on October 12, 2010, Lily Judd said…
Garry, Thank you for inviting me. I am 31 years old and lost my 34-year-old husband three months ago. I am left alone with three young children to raise by myself. Tell me a little bit about yourself.
At 9:22am on October 12, 2010, Jennifer Padovan said…
Hi Garry,

I do not even know where to being with this.
At 9:09am on October 12, 2010, Katharine said…
Hi Gary, Thank you for writing. My son died of a drug and alchohol overdose. He was 33. The guilt for not being able to help him along with the grief is overwhelming. How do I go on? How do I cope? Do you have any suggestions? Thank you. Katharine
At 7:41am on October 12, 2010, Mary Brotzman said…
Tell me a little about yourself and what you are going thru
At 6:17am on October 12, 2010, Katharine said…
I Garry, I'm Katharine thank you for inviting me. I lost my son on October 3. I don't know how to go on. I don't think others understand this grief unless they have been in our shoes. I'm glad you are here for me and can help me get through this painful time. Thank you Katharine
At 11:20pm on October 11, 2010, SuZann said…
Thank you, Garry, for your kind words and thoughts. The day was special for me...interestingly enough, I was craving all the foods I did right before I had delivered my son. How ironic is that? I remembered that moment he was handed to me and the look in his eyes as he stared back at me. It was the day I truly remembered what undying love was about! A great memory I will hold forever! My blessings to you today and always! SuZann
At 5:58pm on October 10, 2010, Leonard Shick said…
Hi. New here and taking my time as I get it to meet others, and tell my story somewhat. I'm not sure about what tomorrow brings, but I pray each day to get me thru todays. A friend once told me that each day added together equals a new tomorrow, so I keep one foot in front of the other, and stay on the pathway for the unknown, and the promise of a better day ahead.
At 2:44pm on October 9, 2010, Kim Garcia said…
Hi Garry, Thank you for writing. I have had so many losses recently and compounded with every day struggles, I find it hard to cope. This site helps in knowing that others feel the real pain of grief. Thank you for reaching out. Kim
At 12:59am on October 9, 2010, Mary Christine Lancaster said…
thank you for inviting me to be a legacy friend. As I look at the picture I can see love and a most beautiful smile. God Bless You and may God bring much comfort to your heart. mcl
At 12:08pm on October 8, 2010, amaryllis said…
Hello to you, Garry, a friend is a gift so thank you for being my friend!
We all here have the same strong bond in common having lost a child and it is good for us to be connected. You contact me when you want and I will do the same.
The Peace of Christ be with you , Garry.
At 8:54pm on October 7, 2010, CrystalsWithMe said…
Friends forever:) Thank You
At 8:53pm on October 7, 2010, CrystalsWithMe said…
Garry,
WE miss our Babies ,But I;m not ready to say forever !!! My tears are many and I don't want the pain to end...Does that make sense !
I sat on bed last nite and thought omg if I live 40 more yrs.It will be 40 yrs with out my Cystal and that I can not bare or understand! God Bless Us
At 6:46pm on October 7, 2010, Pat Russell said…
Thank you for befriending me.
At 4:29pm on October 5, 2010, Gerry Fiden said…
Garry,
Thank you for the friend request. I have said it many a time...the connection we have on this site is so very special...although those of us here have never met. The bond we share is special and unique as it is due to the death of our children. We all need all the help we can get in dealing with our loss, and who better than some one who walks in our shoes. E-mail me anytime.
God Be With You,
Gerry
At 6:11pm on October 4, 2010, Diana Sanchez said…
I am sorry for your loss. It has been many years for you, tell me, does the pain ease with time? On November 21st it will be a year since my son was murdered and I feel more pain now than I did during the first couple of months after his death. I don't understand.

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