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At 8:42am on March 16, 2012, Jimmy Hickey said…
Good motning momma..its two yrs and close to two months since your were taken from us.. I know you can hear me when i talk to you so you already know since then weve lost cousin bill followed by cousin gary shortly after and about nine months later cousin renee followed to heaven and most recent uncle tim. Its a long list and it hurts so much to think about . I pray everynight that when you got up there that uncle mark was waiting with open arms for you and our other beloved family. Im so sad everyday momma . I really started to think maybe since you werent here that i had no one .. I was wrong, of course its not you but all of your sisters have in there own ways made sure i was ok and im so thankful fpr that because without the love of our famly therea no way i would ever have been able to hang on. The major reason im writting is because after two yrs two months you finally came to me in my dreams. Im crying of happiness mommma. Thx you i love you
At 1:33am on September 8, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
jimmy,
You are such a dedicated son. Thank you for saying the words a lot of us who lost parents need to do. I feel your mom will be in your soul forerver.
Listen ever so gentlly, and she will always be there for you.
I still have "melt downs" after nine months. I have to say that I do not sleep much, and I sure wish I could get on my knees more and thank God I had a mom that cared, I know she would not want me to be sad. Her faith life was so dedicated.....I know she will get me there. Don't get me wrong, I love God with all my heart and soul, I just need to push myself out of the way, and be closer to God and Mom. Have a great week. Kindly, Belinda Rhodes
At 1:33am on September 8, 2010, Belinda Rhodes said…
jimmy,
You are such a dedicated son. Thank you for saying the words a lot of us who lost parents need to do. I feel your mom will be in your soul forerver.
Listen ever so gentlly, and she will always be there for you.
I still have "melt downs" after nine months. I have to say that I do not sleep much, and I sure wish I could get on my knees more and thank God I had a mom that cared, I know she would not want me to be sad. Her faith life was so dedicated.....I know she will get me there. Don't get me wrong, I love God with all my heart and soul, I just need to push myself out of the way, and be closer to God and Mom. Have a great week. Kindly, Belinda Rhodes
At 12:51pm on July 13, 2010, Tina said…
I am very sorry about the loss of your mother. The only thing I can tell you is that in all things time does help. The first year is the worse but in all things time helps. I lost my mother (my best friend, companion etc.) in August 2008 I miss her everyday and somedays are better than others but they are ALL better than the first year of her passing. Staying busy and off the computer helps believe it or not. Get active in something, maybe visit the local hospital and become an patient advocate. I'll keep you in my prayers.
At 12:05pm on June 6, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Its Sunday morning mommmaa.. I wanted to pick up the phone this morning and call you so bad ! What I wouldnt do to call the house and her your voice on the other side saying Heeellllloooooo....and have you tell me everything is going to be ok mom .. Im lost !!
At 4:33pm on June 1, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Just wanted to say I love you mom and I miss you so much !! Wish you could have been with us on Sunday.. Well the heat would have driven you home but it was great being at Jamie Rays softball tournament.. Steve came down to watch the championship game. Favor !! Please come visit me in a dream !! I have been praying and praying for you to ! I really need to be able to see you alive at least there mommmaaa. I love you and miss you !
At 3:37pm on May 24, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Hi mommma..just wanted to say I miss you..I wish this would get easier ! me and steve went to a grief seminar on Thur. I learned some good stuff that Im sure will help me in the long run..seems I am no were close to letting you go! Im not sure how I can do that mom. Can you help me..give me a sign anything to help me. They tell me that its normal to feel this way..WOW.. is all I can say..Anyways I still am waiting to have you meet me in a dream..what are you waiting for women.. I love you !!
At 5:24pm on May 12, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
One last thing mom.. I almost forgot that today was the 12th. Not becuase I was not thinking about you any less but just becuase of , well you know me just forgetting. I love you !!
At 5:10pm on May 12, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Today is 4 months since you as Jaiden would say went to the light and she is happy that your happy !! I miss you more and more every day momma.. I keep trying to dream about you and have not had any luck. Im thinking god will give me a great dream with you when he feels I really need it. I tell you he must know something I dont becuase I feel like I need it every night !! If you can let Steve know he is going to be ok please ! I dont think he will ever ever let you go just like me ! We are going to see a speaker on the 20th to try and learn how to deal with the pain we have in us since you left . I just wanted you to know that I love you and miss you with all my heart mommma !! I will talk to you tonight before I go to bed.
At 8:43pm on April 29, 2010, Angie Ivey-Owens said…
Jim you are so profound in your thoughts I wish and pray for the day I will see my Mom and best friend again I wish I were able to verbalize my inside like you are doing here
At 4:15pm on April 23, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
I just spoke with Auntie Kim about letting some of you go in the red woods. There is a fence around one of the really big trees so of course in our family fashion she climbed over the fence and spoke to you while letting your ashes go. Uncle Mike took lots of pictures and I cant wait to see them. I love you very much mom !!!!
At 3:50pm on April 22, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Auntie Kim took some of your ashes up to the red woods this past week mom.. I hope that it made you happy ! It made Steve and I very very sad.. We both struggeled with letting any of you go but after a long talk both felt thats what you would want since you loved it up there so much .. I miss you and if you can hear me then you already know that I talk to you alot and love you and miss you more then happiness !!
At 1:14pm on April 12, 2010, Jimmy Hickey said…
Today is 3 months since the day we lost my loving mother. The pain is just as strong as it was then. My auntie Kim and family took a trip to the red woods for a few days which was one of my mom's favorite places to visit, so much that she had my dad plant I think 3 baby ones in there front yard. Kim took some of her ashes with them to release there today. I love you so much mom and miss you more then words can tell !! I feel in my heart you are shinning down looking at me right now as I type?? Or at least I hope you are ..

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