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At 9:53pm on November 15, 2012, Patricia Butler said…

Hi Lori, sorry to hear that you lost your son,even though my son went to Heaven on 11/18/11 I still miss him very much, He was my youngest and we shared a lot together. I do have an older son who I depend on. I was just looking at this person kathi Wright and this is what happened to my son, he died of a pain medication which the Doctors gave him. The same medication that your son died from, I also want my son back, but know the only way  is to meet him   someday in Heaven. Doctors get rich and we suffer with our loss. I will pray for your son and that you find peace in your life. Take care of your daughter and treasure her with all your heart.

At 11:53am on October 7, 2012, Kathi Wright said…

My son died at the age of 24. I am furious with the doctors because he had been complaining for MONTHS about not feeling well, weakness, chest pain (all of which I found out after he died were side effects of the medication they had him on).  He was at my Mom's house and was fine one second and dead the next.  He was healthy and the autopsy showed NO reason that he should have died.  The coroner said it was most likely a interaction between 2 meds (anitdepressants) that caused his heart to just stop.  Just like you I don't know how I am going to survive this.  It has been almost 18 months and I can't function.  I just want my son back and I want the doctors to admit that they screwed up and because they ignored my son's complaints he is dead.  But I know that will never happen.  I am glad that you are finally able to get a headstone for you son, that is important.  I had my son cremated and still have his ashes, I cannot bring myself to bury them.

At 4:37pm on October 6, 2012, Michelle Johnson said…

Thank you Lori and will be thinking of you!

At 9:08pm on June 12, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori wondering how you're doing how was you're fundraiser? Hope it went good! Well I'm just taking it one.day at a time been reading some books I'm keeping busy my granddaughter is here visiting for summer with work and.kid's my time is flying by well friend ill keep in.touch and hope.you.do to just still miss my.son so!Alicia Jesse's Mom. Hug to you
At 1:02pm on May 26, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori I'm praying you're fund raiser gose good! Keep in touch I'll be here praying for us all to make it one day at a time! Alicia JESSE'S MIM
At 7:48pm on May 24, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori I'm here with you.to and everyone on here it really don't get any.better I miss him more every day that passes and I.don't think it well get better we just have to.hang on friend! I'm. Going to see if I can.get.out and.Buy some books we'll keep in touch lv been praying for us all here I didn't before pray alot but it helps me a little anyway. Hope you're keeping busy I'm trying hugs to you Alicia Jesse's Mom
At 9:59pm on May 20, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi.Lori just thinking of you and how you're doing I hope you're fine I'm just missing my Jesse how I.wish I could have a.visit or atleast a dream! But nothing! I just think about him and I get tears in my.eyes just can't help it I try keeping busy but at nights its really hard. Just can't without sleeping pills. Just got used to them 3years in July! I.hope you're doing good thinking of you Alicia Jesse's Mom
At 2:28pm on May 7, 2012, Lori Jones-Andy's mom said…

If anyone is interested Here is a link to my blog concerning the fund raising for my son's memorial scholarship and the bike ride I have coming up.  While I'm on the road that will likely be the only writing I do.  http://for-andy-with-love.blogspot.com/?view=classic

At 11:32am on April 28, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori thanks for you're word's they do help i do believe what u said about the radio turning on I've had other people tell me of things that have happened to them i haven't had any of those experience yet i pray that i well i did have a dream about him.one night i thought i saw him but i think it was a dream he was floating in air with my oldest son Jesses older brother that passed in 6/27/79 n my mom they were floating and they had wings and jesse says to me lm ok Mom .he looked sad then he smiled and they disappeared that's the only time its been like 3 years a couple of months after he passed how i pray to see him to know his good.i just miss him so.and for you just going on 3 month's well time really don't matter we still miss our children forever but there in our hearts thank you for bing here.we all need to vent sometimes it helps.and i really believe what you told me.like you say I'll just have to open my mind and soul and pray i get a sign from him.HUGsTO YOU.ALICIA Jesse's MOM
At 7:05pm on April 27, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi lori thank you im just here missing my son how are you doing I've been trying to write you a message but it won't go through i hope you're fine we'll keep in touch hugs to you Alicia Jesse's Mom
At 7:01pm on April 27, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi lori yes I'm hangin in there thank you.missing my son.every day i see something that reminds me of jesse his in my heart forever. How are you doing? I know it is very hard to go on without our beloved son. I've been reading some books and still design if i should go get a reading! I miss my son i go to cemetery and sit there i wish i could of done something for him.but i never knew he was sick.well that's what the doctor said i guess cause she knows what she did to my beloved jesse.sorry i keep going on. Thanks for bing here hugs to you we'll keep in touch ill pray for us all Alicia Jesse's mom
At 10:23pm on March 28, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori I'm.hoping that you are doing good just know that.all of us here are praying you.made it just.fine.from you're hospital stay hugs to you you're in my prayers. Alicia. Jesse's. Mom.
At 8:30pm on March 26, 2012, shannon churchill said…

Lori... you have no idea or maybe you do...what it means to me to have someone talk to me and tell me about how they feel or the experiences  they have with their children.   Your son looks very sweet just like my Tommy was.   All I can say is ...it it is really better there.... I am happy they are there together... I would want my son to always have the best in this life and if this is not be best then I am happy for him...   We have so much more pain in our lives to live through and they are done with it.    You know... your son was in pain.  And strangly so was mine just in a different way.   I have seen so many young men taken away who were in some sort of pain.... maybe it is Gods mercy that takes them away from more on this earth.   I would never want my son to live through the loss of a child like we have.    The love we feel for them is so incredible, and protecting them is impossible.   God bless you and know... we will see them again... I feel I will have so many new friends there just through knowing  this pain.    We will be kindred spirits...

At 4:17pm on March 25, 2012, Shannon (Briaunte's mom) said…

Hi Lori, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.  I wish I had more encouraging words to give but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

Shannon (Briaunte's mom)

At 4:17pm on March 25, 2012, Shannon (Briaunte's mom) said…

Hi Lori, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.  I wish I had more encouraging words to give but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

Shannon (Briaunte's mom)

At 7:38pm on March 18, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Lori thank you for you're friend request I'm honored to be here for you in any way I can I'm glad you got a chance to be with your friend at the beach but it's still so fresh in you're mind of loading you're beloved son I'm here but I'm sorry sometimes I'm just sad I don't do much venting here but I will come.see what everyone is doing we are all in this in this site togather friend hugs to you Alicia Jesse's mom
At 12:35pm on February 22, 2012, Jeff Justus said…

So sorry to read about the loss of your son. I lost my son 11-18-10 from an aortic anneurysm. This is such a sad journey and to me, that first year was really tough. The group is great therapy. I have also found a group of bereaved parents and that really helps. Take care and remember ....you'll take this lonely journey " moment by moment ". Words really can't console your pain but you do know that each and everyone on this site has lost at least one child and we've all experienced that numb happless feeling. Good luck !

At 12:35pm on February 22, 2012, Jeff Justus said…

So sorry to read about the loss of your son. I lost my son 11-18-10 from an aortic anneurysm. This is such a sad journey and to me, that first year was really tough. The group is great therapy. I have also found a group of bereaved parents and that really helps. Take care and remember ....you'll take this lonely journey " moment by moment ". Words really can't console your pain but you do know that each and everyone on this site has lost at least one child and we've all experienced that numb happless feeling. Good luck !

At 12:34pm on February 22, 2012, Jeff Justus said…

So sorry to read about the loss of your son. I lost my son 11-18-10 from an aortic anneurysm. This is such a sad journey and to me, that first year was really tough. The group is great therapy. I have also found a group of bereaved parents and that really helps. Take care and remember ....you'll take this lonely journey " moment by moment ". Words really can't console your pain but you do know that each and everyone on this site has lost at least one child and we've all experienced that numb happless feeling. Good luck !

At 12:34pm on February 22, 2012, Jeff Justus said…

So sorry to read about the loss of your son. I lost my son 11-18-10 from an aortic anneurysm. This is such a sad journey and to me, that first year was really tough. The group is great therapy. I have also found a group of bereaved parents and that really helps. Take care and remember ....you'll take this lonely journey " moment by moment ". Words really can't console your pain but you do know that each and everyone on this site has lost at least one child and we've all experienced that numb happless feeling. Good luck !

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