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At 8:19am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:18am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:18am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:18am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:18am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:17am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:17am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:16am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:16am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:16am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 8:16am on January 4, 2012, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn,

i emailed you when you sent me an email a few weeks ago, you told me that you had contacted some one on face book, thats all I'll say cos your email was pretty private.

I'm ok, keeping myself busy, I will eventualy get a photo of me and my lovely smiley karen put on to this website,  its just a pain to do it at the moment as my desk top has all the photos loaded on there, and Ive disconnected it on account of decorating, which is going realy well, its done me good to keep busy, I am creative in that respect.

my xmas was quiet and peaceful, just how I wanted it to be.

I'm finding a kind of inner peace about everything I don't know where thats come from, but I'm sure my karen has a hand in it.

I feel she is some how still with me I can feel it because the sadness is not so overwhelming as it was, I understand a lot more about life after death, and how love never dies, if I was to sit and crumble that would not be a befiting epitath to my wonderful karen, I owe it to her to live as she would want me to, to make the best of what I have, to achieve the things we talked about, and to stay strong in my belief that she is happy, and wants me to be happy also.

glad to hear that life is still very much full of variety for you, and that you are taking the rest you need.

 

excuse my spelling I'm the worst in the world for making mistakes with my grammer and spelling

god bless and hugs right back at you chicken xx

At 9:28pm on December 13, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn

I got some antidepressants, what ever gets you through the nite, the days, the weeks, and months ahead, what ever it takes to survive this pain and emptiness.

I feel better, I can function, I can get on and do the things that need to be done without falling apart, or breaking down in uncontrolable anguish and tears.

My broken heart will never fully mend, but it will hold on to the love we had, that love is as strong as ever, that love is forever. my heart  broke because she couldnt live, she had to die to stop the suffering and pain, but I know and she knew we will always be together one way or another, I can tell she is around, a song exploded in my heart this morning "let the sunshine in, let the sunshine in..." it lifted me and I intictively knew it was karen, I felt her with me I felt her lively spirit all around me, and the day ahead didnt look so daughting, the day ahead was bright and uplifting.

I hope glynn that you are getting through these days leading up to the season to be "jolly" we loved xmas, so I am not going to be a wet blanket if I can help it, I am going to remember all the wonderfull xmas's we had, and continue with this one with that in mind, I'm going to capture the xmas spirit of Karen.

thinking of you, (and all who are out there who are without the one they love)

with a bundle of hugs

norma

 

 

 

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At 12:43pm on December 5, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn

i will keep that in mind about the music.

as for the traumatic event, I'm still dealing with it, got ptsd as a result, but at last I'm going to get treatment.

it makes grieving all the more debilitating.

I'm not so good right now, in a bit of a snottery mess cant stop crying, I don't have the energy for excitment, perhaps that will all come with time.

I'm in a bit of a downward spirrall, so for now, and untill I get an upward spirrall I will say bye for now.

Rebecca will always be right beside you in everything you do, she will be there for how ever long that maybe.

My Karen will be doing her best to help and keep me safe.

god bless you, and thank you so very much, youve helped more than you know.

norma   

 

 

 

At 7:09am on December 5, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hello there glynn

 in the begining, I shut myself away I wouldn't or couldn't answer the phone. I didnt't want to see anyone, I was able to talk to one friend who lost a dear friend at the same time, with the same cancer, in the same hospital, in the same ward. I was planning to go on a short break with her to Rome, but it's not happened yet, her dausghter was about to have a baby so we put it off till we knew all was well, her son is now about to have a baby, I suppose I will get round to it at some point, I don't see her that often as she has such a busy life, and works shifts.

your right about self asteem, I no longer feel a special some one.

I put the tree up just for the sake of the kids, my niece and nephews kids that is, we were lucky to have children in our lives, they are like our very own, karen and I were there for them through out there lives as they had a very poor and difficult start in life, they loved karen so much, we changed thier lives, now they are lovely young adults with children of thier own, they are ajoy to have around. Ive had them stop over from time to time, but I find my tolerance levels are short, I am careful not to let them see that.

I don't work, but I am hoping to go to horticultural college next year, then try to break into garden designe somthing Ive wanted to do for years,  karen was always engouraging me to do it, but health problems hit me, then no sooner had that got sorted, a huge traumatic situation hit us both, I believe as does everyone that this triggered karen's cancer.

I spend a lot of time completely on my own, this is a devil cos it gives you too much thinking time that inevitably drags you down into a depression, thats why I started to decorate the house, today I am trying to get my motivation back, I only have one wall to paper in the dinning room and thats it finished, I can then move on to the bathroom, then the hall, Ive completed the front room and kitchen, I will start the bedroooms in the spring, by that time it will be time to start the garden for the summer.

one of my friends has set up a medium nite at her house for the 16th of January, appartly this guy is so good it takes months to get an appiontment, Mark Antony, (I think that's his name) I suppose I will find out whether all thats been said is true or not.

I have never been one to give up,or give in, but today has creeped up on me and knocked me for 6, I felt myself sinking for the past week or so, thoughts of being with karen start filling my head, and whats the piont in carrying on the future for me is empty and always will be.

its a never ending fight to keep your sanity! my Dad and his wife are comming over today they will see a difference in the house perhaps that will spur me on, I try so hard not to get upset in front of my dad, they are both off to madiera on the 9th to my brother's place, they go every year for 4wks.

Ive learnt a lot by talking to you glynn, and also reafirmed some things too.

the sun is shinning here to, but its bloody freezing!

I can go to my niece for xmas she's only around the corner, they are so young they can't fully understand the depth of pain I'm in, you find yourself trying and putting on a front to spare thier feelings, they don't know what to say to help me, but they are there for me if I need them, they are always telling me that.

I'm going to get the house sorted out before the parents come its a bit off a mess at the moment.  mily boy hasn't been his walk yet cos Ive been on here talking to you, which I am glad of.

god bless ya and a great big hug

norma

At 2:46pm on December 4, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hi glynn

my partner was asthmatic,she had nonsmall cell lung cancer, like you i could not accept what was going to happen, she had a lobectomy in 2008, by 2009 it returned with a vengence, she went through the chemo at first it seemed to work but had to stop because it started to affect her kindneys, she had radiotherapy, the traceva drug, nothing worked, we went to the marsden for the trial drugs up and down to london was grueling, but if I'm honest it was too late for her, she knew it and I refused to give in, there surely had to be somthing, but the reality was we needed a mirical!

it was an infection in the end that got her, pnumonia, I remember her saying to me at the hospital look at you norma , look how dark you are under your eyes I've done that to you, I said no you havn't its the cancer thats done all of this.

looking at photos is hard for me, I have a full blown canvas one of her, ooking at the ones over our life time is very hard, maybe Im avoiding the pain, I cried so much I couldn't breath, turns out I'm abit asthmatic too!

we have a dog Milo, cross collie flat coated retriever, he is epeleptic, Karen called him our special needs boy, he would lay beside her in bed hwen she read her books, I would go in and they had both fell asleep, karen holding milo's paw.

when she became realy ill and had to go to hospital, he started to become ill, the cancer had gone everywhere glynn, it also went to her pancras, after she died I had to see to Milo he was so ill I did not what was wrong with him, I thought I was going to lose him too, it turned out his pancras failed, he is fine now and has medication, but for that to happen to him at that time was a shock to me, my partner and milo were so close,  the vets said it is highly unusual for this to happen in a cross bread, milo was the first case they had come accross, its usualy pedigrees and german shepards that get this condition.

he got a mention at the service, and he was at the wake.

I take your piont about living for them, I would not be who I am if it weren't for her, she said she wanted me to be happy, easier said than done.

I couldnt afford to run a car on my own, so I decided to get a moped get my independance, the day of my test I had to be there for 9 in the morning , on the way there I said Karen be with me today watch over me help me through. I walked into the the bike shop and Adele some one like you was playing, that song chokes me up, I whell up inside, but I knew she was with me I knew she heard me, and the strange thing was, I wasn't to be there until 10-15, I had got my times mixed up, had I got there for 10-15 I wouldn't have heard the song, I passed my test.

I have cried glynn, so much I couldn't breath, it turned out I had asthma too!

sometimes I think I'm only beginning to grieve, but I am trying to get to the place karen wants me to be.

it makes me feel better that I can write to you because you know the pain, and like me you are trying to live again, I told karen the only place she will go is in me she will stay with me, what I see she will see, my niece witnessed a glow all around my head and around my shoulders one day I was so stressed out and upset, she said she could not say anything at the time because she was in shock to see it, and i was so strung out she would not have been able to explain what she saw to me.

I believe it was karen soothing me, trying to heal me in some way.

I was going to spend xmas alone, I just don't know what to do for the best, I know karen would not want that for me, but I don't want to be the wet blanket that puts a dampner on others xmas, I want to feel happy I know karen is near when I get little glimmers of happiness with things Ive achieved, but it doesn't last long cos she's no here to share  the happiness with me.

I am so glad you are finding ways to cope through your music its wonderfull to be able to do that, I know your partner will be listening with you, she wont mind if you don't play so much of her music, she will just be happy that music is helping you what ever that music is, I am even more glad that I have helped in some way.

I have milo, he gets me out the house every day, he's helping to pull me through, I wouldn't have left the house if it weren't for him,I love him so much, I have two cats, ones a kitten they keep me going, I've kinda shut myself away from friends for a while, I've got stuck into the decorating, I had to do something creative, I had to keep busy.

I hope I can get back in to music like you have.   

god bless you glynn, keep on doing what helps, and keep living for both of you, the angels that love us and watch over us will do the rest.

norma

  

At 1:37pm on December 4, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hi

At 8:35am on December 4, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hi glynn

it was a welcome site to see your reply.

my partner and I were together for 27yrs, I saw my partner in a dream long before we met, it was at a time in my life that was very troubled, I was so lonely, I prayed I would meet some one, in 1984 I looked at the night sky and prayed to the stars up above, I prayed that there was some one out there for me, anyone, I didn't care if it was a man or a woman.

a few nights later I had a dream, in the dream I was at a party there I met a young woman with the kindest warm eyes, and the most beautifull smile, that image stayed with me for months, I couldn't forget that face.

I left my home town of Derby (I'm from Scotland origionaly but traveled and moved to Derby in 1979 aged 20) in 1984 packed up a secure job and found a job at bognor regis Butlins.

That's when I saw her the girl in my dreams, she was brought in to were myself and a lot of others were starting work that day, she was put in a chair beside me, from that day we were never to part.

it was a while later I told her about my dream, she was from Coventry, yet we met in a place far from our home towns.

I truely believe we were ment to be together, she was sent to me and I to her, I always said it was written in the stars that we were to be together.

we loved music, we had fun most of our lives, we had a great sense of humour we never failed to make each other laugh, and everyone else, we were a very popular couple.

we had our troubles too, life was not all plain sailing, we had time for others we would always help people whenever we could, karen would go that extra mile to help some one if she could, she was Kind, sensative, careing, extremely funny and entertaing to be with, she was loved and adored by many.

Like you and your partner you were ment to be, because you found a way to be together.

Karen said "I will always watch over you norma" she used to say "I am you and you are me"  that's the way were where.

 I am so glad that you believe like me in the after life, because like me your partner will be watching over you always! what kept you together in this life will keep you together into the next life.

I know what you mean about getting motivated , I started off decorating the whole house as we had planned to do, and I can do it if I believe that she knows and can see what I am doing, but somtimes I stumble and find it hard to cling on to that motivation, I feel so lost without her, a home is a place we shared,.she was my home.

like you my dad is in his 80s he's 81 and battled postrate cancer for the past 7yrs, it was bitter sweet to lose my partner at 48, just a few weeks from her 49th birthday, my Dad's treatment has gone so well yet karen was so young, she was my every day.

I couldn't listen to music of any kind when she passed, yet a song I belive as my family does kept comming through and playing at every opertunity when i was having difficult times, it came on the very day she died, I had one of the songs from the album by adele played at her funeral called, "feel my love" I used to say "this song is from me to you babe" and right back at me the song that kept comming on the radio was an Adele song "some one like you" this is exactly how it was for us, this is the song she chose to send me.

one day in june as I sat in the garden only breaking the silence with talk radio, I sat and sobbed I was saying out loud "I didn't want to say goodbye to you karen", "I don't want to say good bye to you2, I cried out please give me a sign karen let me kow you are there, can you hear me, and for some inexplitable reason I turned the dial on the radio it tuned into a station I never listen to, a song came belowing out called "Goodbye Girl" by Rumour, 

an album we were both going to buy, I had never heard this song before, but it lifted me so much, the words were astounding and very apt, "goodbye does'nt mean forever" every word of that song was so true, I knew then and there she had sent it to me.

I started to sort the garden out, we loved our garden, I spoke to her I said I don't see the birds that often Karen they all go next door, when I put my fork and spade down and sat down, I could't believe my eyes, flocks of birds came into the garden, they were in my baskets, going in and out of the trellis playing, they were in my pots, and even hoping to the backdoor step almost in the kitchen! how could all that happen in the space of one day, I know she made it happen, I know she is there always.

there have been so many other things happen before that and since,helping me find things I thought were lost.

bless you glynn and a great big hug x 

 

 

 

At 6:11pm on December 3, 2011, norma ferrie said…

hello glynn

I'm norma I lost my partner to cancer on the 22nd of feb, this is my first xmas without her, and its hell on earth, but i know smehow and in someway she will help me through, I do not believe that when we die its the end, or what would be the piont in living or loving.

is that we find our soulmate here on earth so that we truely can spend eternity with them?

Our love was forever, no matter how painful it is to be parted from them, we will be together again, it would be much easier if we went together, but that's not how its meant to be, I don't know the reason for this but it must be part of what ever plan is set out for us.

I believe my darling is still around, she gives me signs, signs that even my family have reconized.

but I l have many dark days when the emptiness is vast and lonely, when the pain is overwhlming and I don't know how I am going to make it through the next few hours never mind the day.

if you need to talk I am here, and I understand the pain your going through, sometimes it helps to support each other, I came accross this website in a desperate search for people like me.

this is why Ive ended up talking to you.

norma

 

   

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