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At 3:37pm on September 5, 2010, Diana McNeely said…
I am so sorry for your loss Tammy. I can't even imagine what you have gone through. I have lost my sister and mother, but losing chldren is so inconceivable to me. Thank you for friending me and I hope you have some good days. This time of year must be so tough. Hold on to your memories and make some new ones with your daughter. Best wishes and hugs
At 10:39pm on September 4, 2010, Wendy M. said…
Tammy,
Thank you for asking me to be a friend to you on this website. I can see by your photo that you are a sad and broken- hearted woman and mother. I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know what I can do to help you but I will sure try to ease your pain in any way I can through God.
Wendy
At 8:46pm on September 4, 2010, donna smith said…
Hi Tammy, My daughter also died at home but this all could have been avoided.She had an urinary track infection that went to her blood system, they kept her in the icu for four days then sent her home. her heart level was ony at a 50, they said it would take a couple weeks for it to get back to 75, so that friday i took her back to the cardiogolist and he said it was stilll low, he told me he was going to put a heart monitor on her bbut he said they were all out I pleaded with him to put her back in the hospital, but he said no, and that was the night she died. I just say I should of just took her myself and this would of never happend so i blame myself for not following my heart.
At 8:46pm on September 4, 2010, donna smith said…
Hi Tammy, My daughter also died at home but this all could have been avoided.She had an urinary track infection that went to her blood system, they kept her in the icu for four days then sent her home. her heart level was ony at a 50, they said it would take a couple weeks for it to get back to 75, so that friday i took her back to the cardiogolist and he said it was stilll low, he told me he was going to put a heart monitor on her bbut he said they were all out I pleaded with him to put her back in the hospital, but he said no, and that was the night she died. I just say I should of just took her myself and this would of never happend so i blame myself for not following my heart.
At 6:13am on September 4, 2010, Jacqueline T Anemone said…
Hi Tammy, So So Sorry for your loss, two my God, I lost my oldest daughter to brain cancer in March of this year. At times I do not want to go on. Although I have two other girls and a son, my daughter Danielle and I were also best friends. She brain cancer for almost 6 years and was first given 9 months then two years to live. She was in the army when she was diagnosed 24 years old and in Oct she would be 32. She was paralized completely the last 5 weeks of her life, in horrible pain, never complained at all. Gasped for air for an hour while I had to sign an Advanced Directive so hospice wouldn't call 911 while she was dying. She died at home in my arms.
At 8:53am on August 4, 2010, Phil's Mamama said…
Tammy, I appreciate your note so much. It is sunny today and I think how much my son loved the outdoors, especially the sunshine. I hope you are as okay as possible. Sometimes I truly think I cannot stand this. . .
Many warm hugs today.
Philips Mamma
At 4:39am on August 4, 2010, shirley zurschmeide said…
Thank you for writing to me. I know I need to let go and I will leave Jeannie alone (Scott's girlfriend ). That night of his birthday I drank too much and left Jeannie a message on face book asking her did she remember and I said some mean things to her. She said she did remember and she did it in her own way. I told her how sorry I was for saying horrible things to her. And she said it's okay. Your right Tammy I will left go. I know a lot of us has gotten that phone call. I too can play that day in my head, that awful day that changed our lives forever. Take care of yourself. Love Shirley
At 8:41pm on July 30, 2010, Marie Polak said…
Tammy I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughters. I loss my son 7 months ago to a accidental O.D he had alot of problems. I know how much my heart hurts lossing one child, so I could only imagine how your heart must be feeling losing two. Thank god he left one for you to love and be there with you when the pain is unbareable. I have one daughter and I thank god she is still with me. There has been so many when I'm so depressed I call her and talk to her I don't know what I'd do without her.My prayers are with you! God Bless you.
At 7:49pm on July 29, 2010, Phil's Mamama said…
Dear Tammy,

I am so sorry about your loss.
I just cannot put into words how sorry I am.
It will be two years for me on Jan 16.
My son meant everything to me and two years, twenty years, it will make no difference.
Please take care of yourself.
Philips Mamma
NC
At 2:02am on July 27, 2010, TAMMY said…
TODAY WAS A BETTER DAY THAN YESTERDAY GOT PLENTY OF REST AND HAD A NICE WALK SO GLAD I HAVE YOU ALL TO TALK TO AND UNDERSTAND HOW AND WTAT IM GOING THRU GOD BLESS AND GOODNITE.
At 1:34pm on July 25, 2010, TAMMY said…
I LOST MY 2 SWEET BABY GIRLS IN A HOUSE FIRE 11 YRS AGO AND EVERYDAY MY HEART BREAKS A LITTLE BIT MORE AS I WATCH MY CHILD THAT SURVIVED LOOK SO SAD AND LONELY IT HEARTS SO BAD CAUSE I NO HOW SHE FEELS SO I CANT VERYWELL SAY STOP ACTING LIKE THAT I TRY TO LET HER NO IM HERE FOR HER AND SPEND ALOT OF TIME WITH HER IM A SINGLE MOM I WORK RUN THE HOUSEHOLD HELP WITH HOMEWORK AND TRY TO BE STRONG FOR THE BOTH OF US BUT I FALL WEAK AT TIMES AND HAVE NO SUPPORT IM SO VERY THANKFUL AND HAPPY THAT I FOUND THIS SUPPORT GROUP ON LINE TODAY AND TO SEE IM NOT THE ONLY ONE HURTING SO DEEPLY INSIDE MAKES ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER I EVEN SMILED FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A LONG TIME THANKS YOU GUYS HOPE TO CONNECT WITH YOU ALL VERY SOON HAVE A BLESSED DAY.

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