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At 8:43pm on January 16, 2013, Janice F. said…

Jeannette, I think I u derstand how you feel,  I lost my much beloved Mom July 2011, then lost the other half of me, Don, in June, 2012.  I thought I would die when Mom passed away, but nothing could have prepared me for losing Don.  And I can't comprehend losing a child...

At 7:21pm on January 16, 2013, Barbara Rieger said…

Hi Jeanette, so sorry for your pain over your son and your husband within the same year. My deceased parent were married on Nov. 5th and my deceased brother was married on Nov. 5th too.

My only child/son Joe left our house on Easter Sunday while he was driving home on April 5, 2010 where he lived with my mother he was fatally injured by a drunk driver.

Recently, I learned from the computer by a friend that my first husband Joe's biological father passed away the same year and one month and a few days later. Then this past November 19, 2012 my mother passed. I am the only one surviving in my immediate family.

My husband Bill had adopted Joe when he was in grammar school. Joe was 42 1/2 years old and his friends are all turning 46 this year;Joe's birthday August 19th. My birthday is January 19th.

It's difficult and I understand your feelings. We will always feel the pain from time to time more than at other times. I don't dwell on it but that may be because I'm very active in my community.

Come here and read the messages from other parents who understand. There is no place else with people to get how we feel except anyone who can identify with the loss. I am a senior citizen and know many people who have lost their children, parents and husbands. We have plenty of company.

Take good care of yourself.

Sending Love,

Barbara

At 8:48pm on October 1, 2012, Diane Hood said…
Hello Jeanette my name is Diane and I lost my son 20 months ago to a self inflicted wound to his chest, he was 30 and it was two weeks before Christmas . I know how you feel I thought my life was over but I had to stay strong for my other three children. The hard part was when it happened I was living 700 miles away but I'm getting thru this my Mom passed three months ago and I was a little prepared for her passing she was 92 and had lived for years with Alzheimer's. I'm a Christian and I do believeGod will not put more on you than you can bear so I just want to say be strong and keep faith in God, Glad we're friends on this page send me a message anytime you want to talk..
At 2:21pm on July 22, 2011, Tami said…
Jeanette, I am lighting my candle today in memory of your Husband Henry. I believe that your son and him are celebrating together! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hugs to you
At 10:49pm on January 9, 2011, Danielle L. Moore said…
Thank you so much, your prayers mean so much!
At 2:23am on January 9, 2011, Danielle L. Moore said…

I too stand on my faith in our GOD. Never the less my outward human part of me wants him here with me.

I work with death daily I am a hospice nurse. I cry daily. My soul is so deeply touch with the durest the families go thru in the back of my mind that keeps me in tears. But I do stand strong infront of these families the cry like a idiot in the car. My heart is very heavy and prayer is not helping me right now. I know he (GOD) hears me an I have faith he will take care of us all......Thank you

At 2:23am on January 9, 2011, Danielle L. Moore said…

I too stand on my faith in our GOD. Never the less my outward human part of me wants him here with me.

I work with death daily I am a hospice nurse. I cry daily. My soul is so deeply touch with the durest the families go thru in the back of my mind that keeps me in tears. But I do stand strong infront of these families the cry like a idiot in the car. My heart is very heavy and prayer is not helping me right now. I know he (GOD) hears me an I have faith he will take care of us all......Thank you

At 8:59pm on November 16, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
Jeanette, Thank you for the post on Bereaved Spouses. Perhaps together we can get through one day at a time. HUGS Hugs help us grow spiritually.
At 8:59pm on November 16, 2010, Ellen Brant said…
Jeanette, Thank you for the post on Bereaved Spouses. Perhaps together we can get through one day at a time. HUGS Hugs help us grow spiritually.
At 9:52pm on July 28, 2010, TAMMY said…
MRS WILLIAMS HI HOPE YOU ARE MUCH BETTER MY NAME IS TAMMY AND LOST IS SO VERY PAINFUL U FEEL ALONE AND UNHAPPY AND AT OTHER TIMES U FEEL LIKE/ OR JUST BREAKING DOWN SISTER BUT THIS IS ALL APART OF THE HEALING PROCESS BUT IM HERE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU WILL NEVER FORGET THESE SPECIAL LOVED ONES BUT GOD WILL AND CAN HELP YOU GET THRU IF YOU HAVE FAITH AND ALSO PRAY MRS WILLIAM AND PRAY HARD CAUSE PRAYER CAN AND WILL CHANGE THINGS GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP KEEPING ON MY FRIEND.
At 2:48pm on May 12, 2010, jeanette williams said…
THANK U ALL.
At 2:28pm on May 12, 2010, charlottemosby82@hotmail.com said…
Jeanette, Hello! My name is charlotte, It take time,Keep praying and talk to your Father in Heaven
I been there. Be strong and be of good cheer for God is Good. Hold on you'll be alright. To see you picture
you're strong.
At 7:33am on April 1, 2010, jeanette williams said…
THIS IS APRIL 1ST .THIS MONTH IS HARD FOR ME. MY HUSBAND WOULD HAVE BEEN 64 ON APRIL 12TH. I HOPE THAT I CAN GET THROUGH THIS MONTH,WITH OUT LOOSING MY SANITY
At 8:49pm on March 31, 2010, Kathy Mook said…
Hi Jeanette,
I don't know why men have to be so stubborn. I've been married to my husband for 31yrs and he has never listened to his doctors. I'm mad at him for not doing anything to stay alive longer. I lean more toward anger than compassion every time he ends up in the hospital. I hope your feeling better today. This is my son's favorite season so it's really affecting me. Blessings,Kathy
At 10:40pm on March 29, 2010, Kathy Mook said…
Your very welcome. I haven't lost a spouse but mine has really not been there for me through the loss of my son. Jon was his stepson and he doesn't have a clue what I feel. He and I lost our first child together and way back then, he was a little more compassionate but we have a lot of issues and I'm really sort of anticipating his death. He has had quadruple bypass surgery, both of his carrotids cleaned,one twice, suffered several TIA's and had two strokes and still smokes. He just took a disability retirement. I'm really angry with him for not taking care of himself. Especially after all the surgery. I feel like he's just killing himself. You can email me if you'd like. kathymook@msn.com. I have to say that if it weren't for my faith and knowing that I'll see my boys again, I would be way worse. Blessings.
At 10:23pm on March 29, 2010, Kathy Mook said…
Jeanette, I'm so sorry for the loss of both your son and your husband. Grief can be very overwhelming, especially when you don't have the support, for whatever reason, from your spouse. I'll be praying for you. Kathy
At 9:22pm on February 18, 2010, Marika said…
Dear jeanette
I hope you have family, and friends because that will help you alot.
I lost my dear husband 10 years ago, and i am still so heartbroken. I have nobody no family not even a close friend just a little dog. I just live for him, he needs me, and i need him.I pray to God every day to please not let anything happen to him, because something would happen to him,it also will be my last day in my life,please hang in there, remember the good times , he wants you to go on with your life, he wants you to be happy.

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