Donna Stegall
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  • Indian Trail, NC
  • United States
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At 6:42pm on March 21, 2014, Greg Janik said…
Than you for the encouragement, when I said six months ago it hit me hard, I came very close to talking my own life and that scared the hell out of me. That's when I knew I needed help and that I couldn't do it alone. No matter how we lose our spouse it's never easy, so I do feel for you too. What made this even harder was every morning before I would go to work I would give her a kiss and tell her I loved her. This particular morning I went to work two hours early, she was still sleeping, so I never got to say anything. I have regretted that everyday. It does help to have someone to talk ( vent ) to that understands. Thank you. Take care and God bless. Greg.
At 6:28pm on March 20, 2014, Greg Janik said…
Sorry for the loss of your husband. I never was good at showing emotions or asking for help. I never imagined that I would be widowed at the age of 39. It just isn't right. I thought I could handle it, I kept everything bottled up. If anyone asked how I was doing, the answer was always " fine " when I knew I really wasn't, but that was easier for me, then to explain how I really felt. About six months ago it hit me and it hit me hard. I couldn't take it anymore and I didn't know how to deal with anything anymore. I realized I couldn't do it alone and I needed help. So I started going to church, that helped but I needed more, so now I am asking everybody I can think for help. Thank your for your recommendations. I found a support group that meets the last Thursday of every month, so next week I am going to that. I contacted the pastor yesterday, he's leaving for Florida today and won't be back till next Thursday, he said he will call me when he gets back and set up a meeting. I'm looking forward to that cause I really can't take feeling like this anymore. I even contacted the funeral director that handled the funeral, he gave some names of people to talk too. It was really hard asking people for help after telling them I was fine for so long. But right now I will do anything to find help.
At 6:21pm on March 19, 2014, Greg Janik said…
Thank you, it just feels like I'm stuck in this grief bubble with no way out and everbody's living their life like normal all around me.
 
 
 

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