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I am 28 and my husband, Brian was 35. His birthday is Oct. 24th and he passed away September 22, 2010.
I miss him sooo very much!
He is my true soul mate and God sent him to me!
We do not have kids but have three dogs. Brian loved his dogs soo much!
Fall is a very hard time of year for me. It has always been my favorite time of the year. Brian and I met Oct. 26th, started dating Oct. 29th, and his birthday is this month and I just love this time of year. The colors changing and the cooler air, I just really like it. However it is now the hardest time of the year for me.
I really want to talk to young widows. I want to know how they are dealing with the loss? How are they moving on with their lives? And does it get easier?

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At 6:23am on November 10, 2010, Marie said…: I know how you are feeling .. I feel for you, I wish I could take away all thsts happened and reverse time , but I can't .. It's a process we have to go through ourselves for one reason or another.. What I do is ( which seems to help) I say good morn to my brother and just talk a little to him.. I hope he's looking down on me and smiling.. Plus I have his dog so I talk to him also.. You know pets are wonderful companions if you don't have one think about getting one it would probaly work

At 7:13am on November 9, 2010, Marie said…: Hayley, I'm so sorry you lost your soul mate. It's been a little over a mth since I lost my brother to esophageal cancer .. I'm still not wanting to believe it.

At 9:25pm on October 15, 2010, Sharon said…: Hayley:
I am so sorry for your recent loss, my heart aches for you. The only way I was able to get through this was taking it one day at a time and some days it was one hour at a time. A year has passed and I find it hard to believe. I do have some good days. The house and yard keep me pretty busy as do family and friends so that has helped. Embrace the memories and let the tears flow as you need to. Hug your kids (dogs) and keep them close, I am sure they know you are hurting and they will help you heal. Give yourself time before you begin to feel a little better and keep sharing on this site, you will get a lot of support.

At 10:11pm on October 11, 2010, terrie desiderati said…: breath.......breath.........breath.......

At 2:47pm on October 11, 2010, terrie desiderati said…: can relate to 3 wks........holding together with glue and tape.......have never felt so lost...................

At 1:28pm on October 10, 2010, terrie desiderati said…: im so sorry for such a horrific loss........i lost my daughter...30...and i still have no words...its been 3 weeks now and i am unable to describe the encompassing sadness....

At 10:53pm on October 6, 2010, Charlotte House said…: Sorry for your loss Haley. I feel the same as you since i lost my husband of over 56 years . He had suffered enough. But it is lonely without him here after so many years together, We all need to try & make the best of the change in out lives , though the hurt willl never go away.

At 10:53pm on October 6, 2010, Charlotte House said…: Sorry for your loss Haley. I feel the same as you since i lost my husband of over 56 years . He had suffered enough. But it is lonely without him here after so many years together, We all need to try & make the best of the change in out lives , though the hurt willl never go away.