OOOO MS.ANEMONES IM SO SO SORRY 4 YR LOSS HONEY AND HOW IT HAPPENED BUT PLEASE DONT BLAME YRSELF I DID THAT AT FIRST I KEPT SAYING I SHOULD HAVE TAKEN MY BABIES HOME WITH ME ,AND I WOULD SAY I WISHED IT WAS ME INSTEAD OF THEM BUT AS TIME WENT ON IT WAS TRUELY NOTHING I COULD HAVE DONE AND THE SAME WITH U GOD NEEDED HER MORE AND WE R ONLY HERE ON BORROWED TIME AND THINK HUN SHE IS NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE CAUSE IT SOUND LIKE SHE WAS REALLY SUFFERING IF U EVER WANT 2 TALK IM HERE TRY 2 STAY SRONG AND HAVE FAITH THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER I EVEN STARTED GOING 2 THERAPY AND IT HELPED ME ALOT AS FAR AS LEARNING ABOUT GREIVING AND THE DIFERRENT STAGES SO IF NOTHING ELSE TRY THAT IT MAY BE GOOD 4 U BUT PLEASE DONT BLAME YRSELF SHE WOULDNT WANT U 2 DO THAT 2 YRSELF OK AND THK OF ALL THE GOOD TIMES,FUN TIMES AND GREAT FUNNY MOMENTS U ALL SHARED IT WILL MAKE U FEEL MUCH BETTER GOD BLESS AND HOPE 2 HEAR FROM U SOON.
dear jacqueline, my name is valerie. i lost my son dusty on aug 28-2009-just had the one yr anniv. his birthday was june 28- that was a tremdously sad day for me. to celebrate, i had a cake with his name, plus butterflys on it. i lit a candle and i said a prayer. that was all i could manage. on his 1 yr anniv, i had a balloon release , one of them was a butterfly. i was out of work for a month before that so distraught. unfortunately it doesnt get better after the one yr anniv. that is just a date. a horrible day, worst day of my life. now, i just get through each day, waititing for bed. val
hi jacqueline, I read your comment and I think you and i are alike ,because i get in my car and start screaming , why me, i smoke like you to. I didnt start drinking yet !!!! I just wish i could get one night sleep with out waking up every hour. My heart goes out to you, i wish i was there so we could comport each other because where i live no one understands. i hope we can stay friends. donna