Hi Melissa I am so sorry your son has had to endure this pain and you also. My son is gone and I have to endure the regrets and pain that accompany this tragic loss. I cannot believe he let this happen but in the moment you cannot stop death not without some beautiful intervention which he did not have he had to have death. Your son was lucky he was spared you are lucky to have him. I am sorry about your grandkids and his wife. I am sorry I know he is feeling beyond sad. love to you carrie L
Melissa I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I know how you feel. My son died January 7th 2010 and it has
been 7 months but most people make me feel like I should be going on with my life by now when it is only getting hardier and hardier to except as another day passes without hearing his voice or seeing him. I have ALWAYS been a strong person but but I don't feel that strength anymore. My son was 22, he turned 23 on July 3rd and I miss him so very much. I am new here also. But a few people have left me messages and this seems like a place where people can share the hurt they are feeling or at least talk about it. My praqyers are with you.
My oldrest granddaughter would have been 13 today. I still can not go to the cemetary. It's been almost 5 years. I have gone twice with my son, not letting him know that I have a hard time being there. Anyway, wanted to thank you all for writing to me. Your caring has literally changed my life. Talk soon.
Melissa, I'm so sorry for all the loss you've suffered. I can relate to the lack of support from the family. My son died 1yr ago June 29 and I think at least 2 of his sibblings are still in denial. Whenever I bring up Jon, even if they aren't doing it outwardly, I feel them sighing. Aside from the Lord, this group has been my best source of support. Share all you want here. We all care and know how badly we need to at least have a place to go where people will listen. You'll be in my prayers. Hugs of Hope,Kathy