I also lost my mom unexpectedly. I spoke to her on the phone on Wednesday, November 18th, 2009. She didn't answer my calls on Thursday. On Friday I had someone check on her and they found her dead. This is the hardest thing in the world to deal with. I'm in so much pain, and I imagine you are too. It's nice to read that someone else is experiencing something similar, although I'm very sorry that you have to feel this also.