To Paula Buerger,

Before anything I’d like to express my condolences for the lost of your mom. Losing a love one is always a difficult tragedy, I can relate, I also lost my mother on June of 2012. That’s why it’s so difficult to find words of encouragement.  The reality is that nothing will replace the lost of your mom or mine but we can find some relief when we read the promise found in the bible “the word of God”. 

I would like to share with you some promises I have found in the bible the gospel of Juan 5:28, 29 it says “Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life.” Yes, God has given his son Christ the power to give back life to all who have died, in a resurrection. He himself is a clear testimony of the power of resurrection since the bible stats that was raised from the dead in three days.  This also confirms the word found in Psalms 37:29 “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.” Only someone as power full as God himself can make such promises, that’s why I encourage you to look for comfort through the word of God the Bible, because your Mom will live again.

Here is a link were you can find a small tack that talks on the Hope for our love ones. 

http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/what-hope-for-dead-loved-ones/1101987030/

I hope it brings you comfort.

Best regards

Miguel Mendez 

Paula I too know how you are feeling.. I lost my dad September 13th and it still doesn't seem real. I find myself thinking about him all the time and things I would like to say to him. I have good days and bad. Right now I try to find things I can do to honor him such as have the memorial decal made for my explorer, it doesn't take away the hurt but it makes me feel that I am honoring him and remembering him daily by doing little things like that. I hope it get better for both of us.

Paula I too know how you are feeling.. I lost my dad September 13th and it still doesn't seem real. I find myself thinking about him all the time and things I would like to say to him. I have good days and bad. Right now I try to find things I can do to honor him such as have the memorial decal made for my explorer, it doesn't take away the hurt but it makes me feel that I am honoring him and remembering him daily by doing little things like that. I hope it get better for both of us.