Sara Murphy
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....Glad you made it safely to CA. Once you get your furniture in and everything set up, it'll start to feel like home. It sounds like Rudy likes it there."
Jul 9
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb....I love Greg's pond.  I'm glad it wasn't destroyed by the flood."
Jul 4
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Happy Anniversary Chuck and Steve. I'm glad you found each other ♥"
Jul 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane....thinking of you today as you make your way to California. It may be a scary journey but I believe good things are waiting for you in CA including Bob who will never leave your side. Please let us know how you're doing once you and…"
Jul 2
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Frances, I'm not so sure he's telling you it's time to move on. It could also be that it's now or would soon be unhealthy to have such tight rings on your finger which could affect circulation. As part of his watching over you,…"
Jun 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chicago.....It's good to hear from you. I hope you were able to recall all the happy memories of your time with Rose and smile through the tears. I know it's easier said than done but it's what I myself am trying to do. Please do…"
Jun 5
Sara Murphy replied to Sharon Kinsey's discussion Finding the new normal in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Sharon.....It's been a little over 3 years since I lost my husband Ken and I still cannot believe he's not here. He was only 52 yrs old. Prior to losing Ken, I didn't quite grasp the concept of "new normal". I didn't…"
May 31
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane.....Yes, I receive signs from Ken. Sometimes it's a coin in a place where it shouldn't be like underneath my face powder which is in a drawer where there is no change. Other times it's a phone call I receive from someone…"
May 31
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb P....Praying for your safety and that your home is spared from flooding. Please update us when you're able to."
May 30
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Debbie....Yes, I find it so hard to see people out and about doing their thing. The first few months after I lost Ken, I couldn't understand why they would even want to....why did they WANT to walk their dog, WANT to go for a run, WANT to go…"
May 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"30 years ago today I received the greatest gift of my life when I became Ken's wife. This past 3 day weekend was such a long weekend knowing that we would have/should have been celebrating. We likely would have gone away for the weekend.…"
May 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane...I can't imagine how scary it is with all the tornados and flooding around you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I think heavy winds are the scariest part of any storm but tornados are a whole other ballgame. I pray…"
May 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi All....Sorry I dropped off for a bit. We had an extremely busy quarter at work and I fell behind in reading the posts. Although I was reading them, I felt I was too far behind to comment on posts from 2 weeks prior. I have been thinking of all of…"
May 28
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha.....I'm catching up on the past couple weeks and see that you've lost Tootsie. I'm so sorry about this, especially being that it was so close to Ernie's anniversary date and the passing of your friend. Too much loss in a…"
May 15
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chuck...I'm just now reading your beautiful post. I have missed your writing. You have such a way with words that I can see and feel the scene you've set with you, Larry and your friends but at the same time, relate some piece of it to my…"
Apr 26
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Chuck, You are one of the familiar names it's good to see again. Missed you and your storytelling. I'm glad you were able to install the memorial plaque for Larry. I can't see the photo but it may be because I'm at work and…"
Apr 4

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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