Jeanette, Thank you for the post on Bereaved Spouses. Perhaps together we can get through one day at a time. HUGS Hugs help us grow spiritually.

Jeanette, Thank you for the post on Bereaved Spouses. Perhaps together we can get through one day at a time. HUGS Hugs help us grow spiritually.

Hi Jeanette,
I don't know why men have to be so stubborn. I've been married to my husband for 31yrs and he has never listened to his doctors. I'm mad at him for not doing anything to stay alive longer. I lean more toward anger than compassion every time he ends up in the hospital. I hope your feeling better today. This is my son's favorite season so it's really affecting me. Blessings,Kathy

Your very welcome. I haven't lost a spouse but mine has really not been there for me through the loss of my son. Jon was his stepson and he doesn't have a clue what I feel. He and I lost our first child together and way back then, he was a little more compassionate but we have a lot of issues and I'm really sort of anticipating his death. He has had quadruple bypass surgery, both of his carrotids cleaned,one twice, suffered several TIA's and had two strokes and still smokes. He just took a disability retirement. I'm really angry with him for not taking care of himself. Especially after all the surgery. I feel like he's just killing himself. You can email me if you'd like. kathymook@msn.com. I have to say that if it weren't for my faith and knowing that I'll see my boys again, I would be way worse. Blessings.