my brother jim passed away on april 12 2008 at the age of 37 Iam 36 but at the time only35.he died unexpectadly and the family was already going through alot whereas i broke my back last november. so it has been very hard for us all,he left behind a son the age of 17. I try to be there for him but it is difficult,when i feel guit about my brother and best friends death it makes it hard to look my nephew in the eye sometimes.