Thank you Judy. Things are tapering down for me.Now I can cathch up with myself. God knows why. I have no life anymore. I can only understand and share with you. And of course, hugs to you. Hugs are very good.
thank you so much for your kind words... from the bottom of my heart, your words touched me.. i have heard from so many that bc we only had 8 yrs together- 4.5 married that it would be easier for me to move on etc... and i think its just that people dont know what to say when someone young dies bc it scares them... shawn was love of my life and no one can take that from me... will i fall in love again- absolutely... but that will never take my love of shawn away.
i am sorry for your loss... the first anniversary and birthday- and holidays are so hard... i spent them with my friends, family, and kids and that is what got me through them... i actually threw house parties at the anniversary and birthday and 6 month anniversary of losing him along with 1 year... it helped me being with friends who loved me and him and supported us... it got me through those tough days... the time that follows is also tough but it gets easier... all my love, liz
I was reluctant to share my feelings but I was so distraught and sad I really needed to and after reading your reply a few times because sometimes things don't sink in and I thought about your words and I can't thank you enough. It was just what I needed to hear. You really understand me and you made me feel better and I can sleep tonight because of your support. God bless you and thanks again.
Hi Judy, hope you are doing ok on your five month anniversary..its gotta be hard. hang in there.
thank you so much for your kind thoughts and words last week... literally, my grief knows no bounds and there are times I feel like it is a weight, like I am being crushed between two stones and can't even catch my breath for the pain. I know you know what I mean.
I am thinking of you and, as they say, holding you in the light..
Thank you for your insight and for your support and concern. It is appreciated. It really helps to be able to share my deep, albeit, dark thoughts on this site as I still stand by every word I ever posted. I hope you are well. Take care.