I am so so sorry, Kathleen. My son was 23. Birthdays are so hard, Mother's day, anniversary of the day they left - but then again, every day is hard. It is difficult to be understood in the "outside" world - it is nice to have this place. On Scotty's birthday I get Green (his favorite color) balloons and give his people notecards to tie on them with his pre printed Face Book address, then they can write him a note and release while his favorite music is playing. We do hear back on his Face Book wall from people who find the balloons. There really are no great words - still the best quote I have read to date is, "The Presence of your Absence is Everywhere" - unknown.
My sincere thoughts and prayers are
with you, your family and friends.
I'm so very sorry to hear about your
son's passing. I will continue to pray
to God that he will carry your pain and
strenghten you each day. According
to the Bible book John 5:28,29 it
hold's out a beautiful promise. Jesus
Christ promised that through his ransom
sacrifice, he will resurrect your son back
to life. Please know that this is not
what God intended, however your son
will live again. Isaiah 25:8 says death
will be swallowed up forever. Psalms
147:3 assures us that God is healing
the broken hearted and binding up
their painful spot. I hope these promises
will brighten up your day and days to come.
Hi Kathleen I am so sorry we are in this stupid life now... without our sons. there is so much to share with them and wanted some happy memories. I have so much sadness and am so bound up with regret and such. Carrie L
I am so sorry for your loss, nothing can compare with the empty feeling I carry around daily. I can't sleep at night. I just keep trusting that this will get better. I know how you feel I am really having a hard time. Again sorry it is just not what we planned but we have to continue. You are in my prayers.
Kathleen , I am sorry for your loss. My account is messed up. But I appreciate your kind words. And it has been 2 months and life is so different . I have been trying to post here but i . Look i just read your comments and i am all messed up i am so sorry. email@example.com 714 380-2500 I know that is weird but you can call me anytime day or night i don't sleep much. I have not been on here in a while. i opened another account to respond to your comments. Look please email me or call me . i am doing really bad.