Dear Liz, my heart goes out to you....this is truly a very hard road we are going down, and i would like to be able to get back on the road that leads us back to our son's..i lost my Robby last august, 2009 and it has not gotten any better, if not worse...we all share this loss, and pain that nobody else can feel unless they have lost a child. as you know it is the most gut wrenching, deep in the heart aching that a human being can feel...i sometimes think i could just give up, and stop breathing so the pain, and heartache would stop...i am truly sorry for the loss of your 2 beautiful son's. i know that i am still numb inside, and feel angry, bitter, and am not the person i was. i am not a kind person anymore like i always have been, maybe in time i will find my way back to the lord, but right now i just don't know from one day to the next...how are you coping???please continue to talk to us on legacy because at times it does help some...i don't have anyone to talk to so this has been a release for me...take care, tammy E
Dear Liz, My heart goes out to you, I know how it feels to lose a son, my son died on March 1, 2010, it is the worst pain I have ever felt or have had to endure, and I have been through alot, but to lose two children seems unbearble. I will certainly keep you in my prayers. God and His Son and The Holy Spirit is our only hope. I don't sleep well at night, my son is on my mind constantly, first in the morning and last at night. It is like nothing is important anymore except my relationship with God, He will help us if we let Him, then we will be with our children one day, what a joyous day that will be. Still it is so hard, until then we must trust in God, there is no other way. God bless you Liz and I love you precious mother. In sorrow, Cheryl
I'm so sorry Liz,I too wish I had answers for you,I too lost my son, my one and only son,in July of 09,I start and end each day the same with tears,please feel free to add me contact me at any time,this journey is not one to go it alone,I'll keep you in my prayers for peace and comfort,firstname.lastname@example.org is my personal email....
Oh Liz, I am so sorry! I wish I had an answer for you but I ask the same question, myself. My 21 yr. old daughter died in a car accident in 1992 and my 25 yr. old son died suddenly of viral myocarditis in 05. I worry constantly about my 23 yr old son. We just do the best we can everyday and most of those days just suck. I put on the mask for others when I feel like I have to. Thank goodness we can share with other non judgemental bereaved parents. I am here for you if you need me. - Sylvia