I JUST LOST MY MOTHER APRIL 18, 2010. I WAS HER CARETAKER FOR THE LAST 4 YEARS SHE HAD DEMENTIA. SO I HAVE MISSED MY MOTHER FOR A LONG TIME NOW. EVEN THOU I KNEW IT WAS COMING SOON SHE WAS ON HOSPICE HERE AT HOME. I STILL FELT SHOCKED AND AM STILL LIVING IN A DAZE. I SPENT ALL MY SAVING STAYING HOME WITH HER, AS WELL AS MY TIME CARING FOR HER. I HAVE NO REGRETS. I'M JUST SO LOST WITHOUT THE CARETAKER TITLE AND INCOME FROM MEDICAID.
NOW MY LANDLORD TELLS ME I HAVE 30 DAYS TO MOVE HE SOLD THE HOUSE, I HAVE NO MONEY AND NO WHERE TO GO, I WANT TO GO BE WITH MY MOM BUT THAT WOULD BE SO WRONG TO MY CHILDREN. IT WOULD JUST BE WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS!!!!
I WISH I KNEW SOME CAREGIVERS FUND OR SOMETHING ELSA WAS AVAILABLE. I GUESS I'LL NEED TO VISIT THE WELFARE OFFICE OR SOMEWHERE. ANYONE WITH ANY IDEAS PLEASE HELP. I'M JUST A MOM MISSING HER MOMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!