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Permalink Reply by kathy obiedzinski on May 25, 2010 at 1:47pm

victoria first thing i would like to say is i am so sorry for your loss.george will be deceased 14 months and i still cry almost everyday. keep stating on this site and it helps because people are going thru what you are going thru now. george was my whole life and still is.i go home and talk to him i have his picture on my cell phone and everyday i look at it.i would have been married 35 years on 7/27/09 but was cut short being with him victoria see if you can see a therapist if you cannot handle it. it is still new to you. i know i needed to see someone and she helped me because i could yell cry and scream i felt comfortable then i notice this site and left her and stayed at this site. again my sympathy is for you and your family

Permalink Reply by Patti Baker on May 25, 2010 at 7:24pm

Vicky,
It will get better little by little, My husband of 55 years died last May, for weeks after he passed I did not get out of bed or dressed, no energy, no interest, I had a very good real estate business, I just could not face coupples. It has been a year now and I have energy, I know what he would want me to do , it took 3 months for me to get up and moving every day, friends and family were wonderful. It was me who had to make the effort, he would want me to go on and not brood forever. I am back selling real esate and when the one year anniversary came something told me to get going and I feel much better. I miss him terribly, life goes on, it is just not the same.....

Permalink Reply by Patti Baker on May 25, 2010 at 7:27pm

Vicky,

PS I still cry little things trigger it.....My grandson was married 3 days after the anniversary, he worked for my husband in the summer, at the wedding he said, I know Grandpa is here with us....you can imagine what that triggered. Cry all you want it is good to get it out

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