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For those that have Mothers in heaven:If roses grow in heaven, Lord, pick a bunch for me. Place them in my Mother's arms and tell her they're from me. Tell her that I
love and miss her, and when she turns to smile, place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for a while, because remembering her is easy, I do it every day, there's an ache within my heart that will never go away. Mom, I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!
THE BEST MOTHER IN THIS UNIVERSE
She's the whisper of the leaves, as I walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach, in my freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on my brow when I’m not well.
My mother lives inside my laughter, she's crystallized in every tear drop.
She's the place I came from, my first home...
She's the map I follow, with every step I take.
She's my first love and my first heart break...and nothing on earth can separate us.
Not time, not space, not even death, will ever separate me from my mummy...
I carry her inside me all the time...
I love you mummy and miss you more than anything else xxxx
Jenny your words are beautiful~ Thank u.
Jenny said:For those that have Mothers in heaven:If roses grow in heaven, Lord, pick a bunch for me. Place them in my Mother's arms and tell her they're from me. Tell her that I
love and miss her, and when she turns to smile, place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for a while, because remembering her is easy, I do it every day, there's an ache within my heart that will never go away. Mom, I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!
THE BEST MOTHER IN THIS UNIVERSE
She's the whisper of the leaves, as I walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach, in my freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on my brow when I’m not well.
My mother lives inside my laughter, she's crystallized in every tear drop.
She's the place I came from, my first home...
She's the map I follow, with every step I take.
She's my first love and my first heart break...and nothing on earth can separate us.
Not time, not space, not even death, will ever separate me from my mummy...
I carry her inside me all the time...
I love you mummy and miss you more than anything else xxxx
Tracy,
I am so sorry to learn of your multiple losses. Its possible that the move happened too soon for your father, who is also mourning your mother. I lost my mother at the end of January, so I can relate to the depths of your grief. However one bit of advice I received as I continue to adjust to the shock of it all was "Make no major decisions for at least a year - for everything will be clouded by your grief." This would apply to the move your father made...however this is now done and may not be easily reversed. There is also something I have observed when friends have had to make a decision to move their parents into other senior's accommodations...it seems that for at least about 6 weeks the parents resent the person who made that decision for them. After all, our parents will always want to be the ones who make the decisions and they must find it very difficult to have someone acting on their behalf. It is important tho' that you try to mend this rift with your father if only by showing up and telling him that you still love him, he will always be your father and you still want him in your life. Do not let this fester. You need each other and the stress of the loss, etc could take a toll on his health too.
My dear mother passed when I was not ready to let her go; although she did her best to warn me with comments such as "At my age you have to expect anything" and "what will be will be". I think she knew how hard it would be for me to lose her but I had somehow expected there might be a period of palliative care, a warning of some sort. Instead her heart simply stopped in her sleep so there was no chance to say goodbye. However, with every visit and every phone call we always concluded our time together by saying "I love you".
My problem is that as I try to cope with this loss, a man I had believed to be my closest friend, simply abandoned me when I needed his support. In fact in the depths of my grief he chose to end our friendship so I am essentially mourning the loss of too important people. I have never known such pain.
My Heart saddens in reading Randi's feelings~ I also, worked in Health Care for many years. Some home Hospice type- in home care (without the actual organization of) .. and in an oncology office. I now feel that i was so ignorant in "it all". Me: this smiling, enlightened (so i thought) caring empathetic person, trying to help all in painting MY picture of Heaven. Well, did i learn how very inexperienced i actually was, after being there 24-7 with my mom... lying in her hospital bed in the middle of her living room. That "light" that i was told that was around me has changed dramatically. I NOW know. However, I would do it ALL again out of my Love for my mom. Peace Randi, you will be fine, in being there and showing your sincere love.....I even crawled in bed with my mom and got some wonderful, powerful hugs.. and i wasnt that close with my mom in many years~ Much healing takes place* Prayers for all today!
Belinda Rhodes said:RandiSabo said:I am 35 and found out mom has extensive breast cancer with mets to bone, liver and nodes. Breast surgeons say surgery is no longer an option and Onc's say treatment will only be palliative. Mom has chosed to defer any treatment to be able to enjoy 'what she has left'. I am a medical professional and respect her decision 100%, but just cant come to terms with this. I cry at the drop of a hat. I feel that the control i usually have over patients care has been stripped from me and I just dont know what to do with myself. How do you cope?
I lost my Mom on Saturday May 2nd.I am devastated.What do I do????
Dana said:I lost my mom November 1st, 2008. She had emphseyma, and her death was expected...but it still has been so very hard. I was her caretaker for as long as I can remember. She never drove..so any Dr appts, or groc store needs or anything.it was always me. And I know I didnt appreciate it as I should have. I have a journal that I wrote in every day after she passed, it did truly help with my grief. We are believers in Jesus Christ and I know where she is now, and that she is happy and whole, and so much better. But oh what I wouldnt give to have to go to the store for her again..or get on the phone and talk about silly mindless things that at the moment I thought I just didnt have time for. I still have her suitcase, with the things she brought over from her last visit, as if she has never left. Her tennis shoes on top of the suitcase, with her clothes neatly packed. I just can not bring myself to throw them out. I know I need to, but its like my last connection to her. I still have a voicemail that she left me while she was still in the hospital. Im heartbroken my mom is gone, but I will see her again and thats my comfort. OH, but do I miss her. I miss talking with her, I miss praying with her, I miss seeing her. I just miss her. thanks for taking the time to read this, and if you still have your mom, call her, go see her, HUG her and tell her you love her!
Lori Sue Bowser said:I lost my Mom on Saturday May 2nd.I am devastated.What do I do????
Dana said:I lost my mom November 1st, 2008. She had emphseyma, and her death was expected...but it still has been so very hard. I was her caretaker for as long as I can remember. She never drove..so any Dr appts, or groc store needs or anything.it was always me. And I know I didnt appreciate it as I should have. I have a journal that I wrote in every day after she passed, it did truly help with my grief. We are believers in Jesus Christ and I know where she is now, and that she is happy and whole, and so much better. But oh what I wouldnt give to have to go to the store for her again..or get on the phone and talk about silly mindless things that at the moment I thought I just didnt have time for. I still have her suitcase, with the things she brought over from her last visit, as if she has never left. Her tennis shoes on top of the suitcase, with her clothes neatly packed. I just can not bring myself to throw them out. I know I need to, but its like my last connection to her. I still have a voicemail that she left me while she was still in the hospital. Im heartbroken my mom is gone, but I will see her again and thats my comfort. OH, but do I miss her. I miss talking with her, I miss praying with her, I miss seeing her. I just miss her. thanks for taking the time to read this, and if you still have your mom, call her, go see her, HUG her and tell her you love her!
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