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There is something you can do, and it might make you feel a little better.
Seeing that you live in another state from the relatives, you can post an obituary of your own in your local paper, and only put in it what you want. Leave them out of it if it makes you feel better ! Write something nice about only you and him and what his life was truely about. Set the record straight for yourself.
How about that for an idea !
I am so sorry his family treated you this way! It is terrible you were his wife and should have been there with him. I couldn't imagine not being allowed to see him after he died and be told you were not allowed at the funeral, shame on his family. They should have thought what he would want. I am sure they were devastated but they had no right to treat you like that. I really don't know what to say but I just had to write because I can't believe his family would treat you that way. I just lost my fiance on June 28, 2010 so I am in the same boat as you. I am lost without him also. I guess we just move forward at our own pace and remember all the memories and keep him alive through them. I know this is not easy but you know your husband would not want you to torture yourself. Do you have someone you can talk to about this? I think it really helps to talk about it. Well I don't know what other advice to give you. Please take care of yourself. Again I am so sorry for your loss.
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Tom said:There is something you can do, and it might make you feel a little better.
Seeing that you live in another state from the relatives, you can post an obituary of your own in your local paper, and only put in it what you want. Leave them out of it if it makes you feel better ! Write something nice about only you and him and what his life was truely about. Set the record straight for yourself.
How about that for an idea !
If you would do ANYTHING for your beloved husband, don't you think our loving Creator would do the same? Many see the Almighty as too distant, as uncaring, and cruel. Yet that cannot be further from the truth! He gives us the only hope for a better future. Since he originated marriage, he wants this divine institution to last forever. That is something that not even death can impede. Why do I say that? Well, the Bible assures: "the Son of God [Jesus] was made manifest, namely, to break up the works of the Devil." Among those works is death (Romans 5: 12). However, Jehovah has promised: "THERE WILL BE A RESURRECTION" (Acts 24: 15). Where? Right here on Earth, in a splendid paradise where, "he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things [will] have passed away” (Revelation 21: 4; Psalm 37: 10, 11). Do you imagine giving your soalmate a warm welcome back to life? I hope so (John 17: 3). May this God-given hope bring your comfort during this difficult moment.
In the meantime, however, you may deal with feelings of anger, frustration, and even guilt. The the following article is very interesting and may even be the answer to your prayers. I know it helped me out tremendously!
http://www.watchtower.org/e/we/article_03.htm
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