I just got back from a trip to a museum and I feel so much better! i put my mind on something besides missing my Husband[almost 3 months] and I'm glad I did.i am going to continue to take baby steps towards a 'normal' life.I know it won't be but,feeling down and sad all the time won't help either.it is still a dream state and I can't fully get my head around the fact that He's gone and will never come back.That will take a long time,if ever,but I will try to make the most of my life as long as I'm here.
Think good thoughts.
Jo, thank you for the idea of doing something positive. I couldn't sleep last nite. You are right, nothing we do will bring our husbands back. Today it's been 2 wks since Jim left me. Only 2 wks, but it seems a lifetime ago. I'm scared of feeling like rhis for the rest of my life. So I will try your suggestion and do at least one positive thing each day. Wish me luck. Maybe we could have a discussion site that is half happy and half sad. Hugs to all.