*Received this at my FIRST face to face Grief meeting tonight and thought I would share it. HUGS Help Us Grow Spiritually. Ellen~
PLEASE don't ask me if I am over it yet. I'll never be "over it."
PLEASE don't tell me they are in a better place. They aren't here.
PLEASE don't say, " At least they aren't suffering." I haven't come to terms with why they had to suffer at all.
PLEASE don't say you know how I feel, unless you have lost a child, spouse, or other family member.
PLEASE don't tell me to get on with my life. I'm still here, you'll notice.
PLEASE don't ask me if I feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that "clears up."
PLEASE don't tell me, "God never makes a mistake." You mean He did this on purpose?
PLEASE don't tell me, "At least you had them for say 28 years." What year would you choose for your loved one to die?
PLEASE don't tell me God never gives us more than we can bear. Who decides how much another person can bear?
Instead....
PLEASE just say you are sorry.
PLEASE just say you remember them if you do.
PLEASE just let me talk if I want to.
PLEASE let me cry when I must.
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i really like what that says.it will be 9 months on the 26th of nov. that my husband passed away and everyone around me acts like i should be over it.i am talking about co-workers, friends and family.believe it or not a few of these people are even widows their self. i feel very bitter and angry and wish that everyone could abide by what you posted.sorry to vent but i am just so sick of being treated like their is something wrong with me.i thought for sure that people who had been through this would understand.
i really like what that says.it will be 9 months on the 26th of nov. that my husband passed away and everyone around me acts like i should be over it.i am talking about co-workers, friends and family.believe it or not a few of these people are even widows their self. i feel very bitter and angry and wish that everyone could abide by what you posted.sorry to vent but i am just so sick of being treated like their is something wrong with me.i thought for sure that people who had been through this would understand.
i really like what that says.it will be 9 months on the 26th of nov. that my husband passed away and everyone around me acts like i should be over it.i am talking about co-workers, friends and family.believe it or not a few of these people are even widows their self. i feel very bitter and angry and wish that everyone could abide by what you posted.sorry to vent but i am just so sick of being treated like their is something wrong with me.i thought for sure that people who had been through this would understand.
hi ellen hugs for you and i know i had a so call friend about a year ago she told me your husband is dead so moved on your alive go head go dacing date new people lets go out and have fun oh i felt so bad she was in my car i had taken her to the store i drop her home and i cry so bad all thye way to my house how can she tell me something like that wen i got home call the my cell company and change my number thats the kind of person i never ever want see in my life i dont need friends like that its been a year now since that day. i know i have to moved on but my way i miss my husband so much he was my best friend. well i want to wish you the best ellen iam going to my oldest son for thanksgiving. iam happy going to be with the grandkids. my prayers goes out to you.
hi ellen hugs for you and i know i had a so call friend about a year ago she told me your husband is dead so moved on your alive go head go dacing date new people lets go out and have fun oh i felt so bad she was in my car i had taken her to the store i drop her home and i cry so bad all thye way to my house how can she tell me something like that wen i got home call the my cell company and change my number thats the kind of person i never ever want see in my life i dont need friends like that its been a year now since that day. i know i have to moved on but my way i miss my husband so much he was my best friend. well i want to wish you the best ellen iam going to my oldest son for thanksgiving. iam happy going to be with the grandkids. my prayers goes out to you.
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