Wondering if it's a good Idea ?

This Friday a friend of mine, a single mother whose only child is away at space camp for 10 days are going to go to a Counrty Western Bar. We are only going to relax and enjoy the music and watch the danceing,but I'm hoping this is the right thing to do, I'm kinda looking forward to it but am having reservations about it, .I guess I'm just not sure it's the right thing to do at this time. There's no question it's going to bring back memories, early in our relationship we loved going out and dancing and having a few drinks,then we just went to dance untill they started charging the same $ for a soda as they did for a mixed drink so we quit going then it turned into YEP bingo lol then staying home and enjoying each other, well at least I know.if there's a problem my friend will bring me home when I want, so I think I'm going ????

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Permalink Reply by BoLynn on August 18, 2010 at 6:24pm

Go!

Permalink Reply by bc on August 18, 2010 at 7:56pm

Virginia, you do what you feel is best, remember there are no rules in this life we are living. Do what makes you feel good, your husband will be with you and he'd probably smile that you are living and not being sad all of the time. As long as your friend will take you home whenever you want, go and have a positive evening. Let me know how it goes.

Permalink Reply by gail stewart on August 18, 2010 at 8:10pm

Virginia,
We all deserve some joy in our lives. You have been thru alot.
Go and enjoy yourself, with no regrets'
Gail

Permalink Reply by brendan obrien on August 18, 2010 at 8:22pm

Go laugh dance remember I drove past the place of my wedding reception the other day as i aproached, i was filled filled with saddness after passing by i was filled with joy and wonderful memories. i turned around and went in for lunch. smiled all the way through my burger and fries

Permalink Reply by brendan obrien on August 18, 2010 at 8:22pm

Permalink Reply by Mary on August 18, 2010 at 8:56pm

Viriginia,
I echo what the others have said. GO, have a good time, enjoy yourself. If it gets to be to much, have someone take you home. You have put in the effort, small steps. If you enjoy yourself and stay, more power to you, have one for me. And let us know how it goes. Hugs.

Permalink Reply by Virginia on August 18, 2010 at 9:24pm

good for you brendan, i'm glad it was a positive thing for you and thanks

brendan obrien said:

Go laugh dance remember I drove past the place of my wedding reception the other day as i aproached, i was filled filled with saddness after passing by i was filled with joy and wonderful memories. i turned around and went in for lunch. smiled all the way through my burger and fries

Permalink Reply by Randolph L. Schrader on August 18, 2010 at 9:42pm

Virginia, yes do it if you can. We will all be with you, you know. Try to have fun and do something for YOU !!!. Just dont tear up the place LOL, okay ? Hugs to you. Hugs are good.

Permalink Reply by Virginia on August 18, 2010 at 9:52pm

Thank you Mr. Randolph, i'm not sure about tearing up the place but IF i do the hillbilly stomp the whole darn place might cave in lol lol you make me laugh hugs

Permalink Reply by Randolph L. Schrader on August 18, 2010 at 10:01pm

Virginia, I will be checking the newspaper headlines anyway. I hope that I have helped the people on this site as much as they have helped me. With all of the devistation that has befallen me, I find thats its awfully hard to keep my chin up. I dont think I can be any lower than rock bottom but I am here to tell you that there is such a place. And it sucks big time. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.

Permalink Reply by Virginia on August 18, 2010 at 10:12pm

Randolph, you help so many and you need to relize just how much i know i wouldn't be where i am if not for you and others here,your in my prayers always as is everyone on this site,( HUGS ) hugs are really good

Permalink Reply by Marlena on August 18, 2010 at 11:37pm