Hi there... I lost my mom May 31 2005 and I lost my dad Dec 6 2009.... I thought I was handling things and dealing with things but I am finding my self ANGRY especially toward my mother.... and I find I am really just missing my dad... Daddys little girl thats me..... i also can not handle the questions about where my mom is ith my oldest daught. my kids only knew my dad never my mom.. and I find I cant talk to her about my mom cause I have nothing good or positive to say... I just have anger and hate... What can I do??? please anyone help me.

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I am sorry for your loss and for the lack of how to share with your daughter. How old is your oldest daughter? I have also lost both of my parents, my mom suffered a stroke on October 9, 2009, and died on October 18, 2009. My dad at that point was cancer free, but his cancer came back in full force on November 8, 2009. I can relate to your daddy's little girl, because I have three brothers and I am the only girl. I was able to take family medical leave from my job and care for my dad for the last 4 months, he went home to be with his Lord and my mom this past Tuesday, the 9th of March. I have two daughters, 17 and 15 and they are both dealing with all this loss differently, but it is only through our faith that we have made it through the past 5 months at all. I don't know what to say to you, because it sounds like your relationship was strained with your mom- I will pray that you can find a good memory of some kind to share with your daughter.
Tina, Thank you.... My daughters are 3 and 2 so it is really hard talking with thembut they are both really full of questions.... I am very sorry for you loss and will keep you and your family in my prayers.
I lost my Mom May 8, 2006 & my Dad Sept. 3, 2008. Please answer me @ my inbox - Janrrscl@aol.com. I think that's how you do it. I would REALLY like to talk to you further. I think we could help each other. Our issues sound very similiar. Thanks, Jan Hoyle
Jan I sent you a invite to add me as your friends... I would love to chat with you and see if we can help eachoher..... I know I really need some guidance.. Looking forward to a chat



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