My mother died 3/16/2010 and This is the second holiday that has went past. Its been a very hard week and I really dont know what to do. My mother was my everything and being reminded to the day that you are to cater to your mother is really hard. Im 23 years old and currently a student. My studies have suffered and my day to day life's work is a true strain. I miss her sooo much. What can I do to help ease to pain?