My mother died 6/22/10 and I'm hurting

I'm very new to this group and joined because I'm having a hard time getting on with things. I'm a Christian and know that Mother's in heaven and is no longer suffering, but I'm struggling. My memory has been terrible, and I'm trying to help my dad with stuff. I'm so tired and just don't have it in me to be sociable. I'm just worried that I won't ever feel normal again, and I miss my mom terribly!

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Permalink Reply by Lori Sherry on August 16, 2010 at 7:06pm

Well, I have been here for awhile. I have been having a VERY hard time dealing with things. I'm a Christian and I know that my dad in Heaven and is no longer suffering but, I'm struggling. I'm having to do stuff on my own. I'm going through stuff and I'm having a hard time with that.

I'm TRYING to be sociable but, at times I can't.

My dad passed away a few weeks ago and at times I feel as if it was yesterday. I miss him terribly and it is not the same without him.

He is with the Lord and he lived to be 67-years-old. He was VERY weak and he continued to get weak until he died.

I guess he went downhill pretty fast.

The pain is HORRIBLE.

I'm O.K. but, I have cried ALOT.

My parents are my foundation.

Grief of a parent is a new thing for me and now I know how hard it is.

I'm finding myself negative and crying ALOT.