Dear Kristi,

  I lost my Mother  May 08,2010, I try to stay at a peacefull place knowing she and daddy are together.  My brother and I have cleaned out her home and rented it.  Everything has gone so fast since she passed.  I really don't know where I am getting the strength, before she passed she said she was going Home.  I asked how will I know your in Heaven?  she replied, I will have my hands on your shoulders for the rest of your life, from Heaven.  At 82 her mind was that of a 28yr old, and I find comfort that she was able to tell us what she wanted. I also find that is the hardest part.

I find myself lonely even if I'm not alone! 

  Set apart from everyone else,  I feel as though she is with me, and at times I can smell her.

My mother lost her parents when she was 23 & 25,  she lived 60 yrs without them. How did she cope?  I know God always got her through,  and I know he is with me.

I still feel the emptyness and not being able to get my life back on track, as she would want.

I were a smile everyday for her,because she loved me!

Thanks, Cindy

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Im so sorry about your loss, I too just lost my mom & dad they were 2gether for 32 yrs. I pray that god comforts us both and I pray we will be reunited with our beloved parents. May god bless us and ease he pain in our hearts.
your mom will always be with you the little things she said and did will be with you always as you remember these things the emptyness will slowly disappear and be replaced with good memories of her. Kristi be patient with yourself. The Bible assures us: “God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalm 34:18)


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