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Time is not healing loss of my best friend, my mum

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Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on June 8, 2015 at 5:20pm

Keep posting here dream moon, ; it'll help take away your pain.  Prayers. Lord please comfort dream moon and all who belong to all these grief sites.

Comment by dream moon on June 8, 2015 at 3:49pm

so sorry lyn

dad died in 2012 3/3 me mum not bean rht sisne

now my mums got brest c so im all ovr plase u cud say

say cort erly thy hav 

but im wored i am 

its not slf pity ima ftr im not im so mad angry abot coz she not dun hrm harm 2 any 2 any 1 ses not she alwayz put evry 1 1st she jaz haz i do sm ethng i do but my slf lst evry 1 els 1ts 1st lk my mum

he wud giv u her lst coin she wud i just hop she beats it i do 

sory if im rant 2 mush on hear im sorry if im rant 2 mush on hear

Comment by lynn on June 8, 2015 at 10:34am

3 years May.26, 2015- my mom passed away- 3 weeks prior I joined this group- my mom had cancer on/off for 20 years lymphoma non-hodgkins large cell b- she lived longer han they told her - she explained to us kids that everyday was truly a gift- enjoyed it like it was our last! I miss and think of her everyday but I did get many memories with her  I spent every possible moment with her- I left my job after many yrs to be with her through chemo etc.. I would never change anything I did to share time with her- you can always recoup money etc.. but once they pass it is over- for those that are suffering time does heal in a way - I am able to live again as she would want be to do- she always said life will GO ON and it does- don't be mad at god dream moon- the truth is we all are going to die-kimie enjoy every second you can with your mom - don't give up! my mom lived an extra 8 years than the dr. expected her to - cherish the time - we are all really the same in a sense-

Comment by dream moon on June 6, 2015 at 4:19pm

im so mad at god wrpld world meldina i am coz of all rubish he/she haz giv us 

i dnt evn get ths sayng wot dosnt kills us maks us stronger its not got me stronger its got mew wrse thn evr it haz so mush loss so mush bad stufn hapn 2 famly its not hrt any 1im not erps im not person i wz in 2011 she died 2 wen my daddy died 

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on June 6, 2015 at 4:14pm

My Mom passed 2/10. My sister quit smoking right away., took me longer but I did too!

Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on June 6, 2015 at 4:12pm

dream moon, I know. Just trying to hold onto my sanity in this god-forsaken storm. First my only child, Candace 4/09/10, just turned 30 then my little bro Doug on 9/22/14 at 54. My existence is sad and mad!

Comment by Kimie on June 3, 2015 at 9:18pm

Hi, I'm Kimie, and my mom is in stage 4 of her sarcoma and has been deemed incurable this week.  They've given her 6 months, but the prognosis will largely depend on her reaction to the chemo she's starting tomorrow.  I feel as though I'm part of a nightmarish countdown to losing her.  I can't plan ahead, because it feels 'closer' to when I might lose her.  It's horrible.  I've joined this group now, because I don't know how I'm going to handle this journey.  It's always been only her and I, and even though today I am married and have children of my own, I'm simply not ready to lose her.  I just don't know how to cope with this.

Comment by dream moon on June 3, 2015 at 4:40pm

i got it off nr antgr gltr grafics wen web its me all crys iv had u cud say

Comment by dream moon on April 21, 2015 at 2:18pm

so sorry dinese lost my dad 2012 on 3.3 it still feaks as if uts still hapend thn had loss non stop mums got mery probs i mnt memry probs dad wz getng beter frm a stroke bk hom for a wk hrf thn bk in hosplt but not stroke unit wish he had grt cre in th wrd he died in wz a hell it wz nasty nurse its cudnt giv a dam so on he had grt cre off funrell hom he did so did we thy had him dreset grt all i rebr last sunday he had he at e evry meal in site evn evry 1s levins y cud say thn on fry morn he wnt in hopsle thn died at 220qm i mnt 220am on sat we got rht 2 lte we did i feal bad i left him 2 die on hell hol u cud say

Comment by Dinese Dam on April 21, 2015 at 7:53am
I lost my mom on March 25, 2010..I miss her as much today as the day she died. She knew she gonna die with in 24 hours we put her in the hospital. The whole family was there beside her. She kept saying she was going on vacation to see my dad who passed away 3 years before she did. While she was actually waiting to die, she took advantage of having all her last before she did. She had in front of her all the time at least 3 meals, 3 different beverages and desserts. She made us go get her favorite wine. In the mean time we all talked about old times and the future. It was getting harder for her to breath cause she had copd. After some hours had passed she told each one of us she loved us then laid down and went into a coma and died a few hours later.

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