Yes I remembered especially since so close to the holidays. As for his parents and grandmother ,sis., and son, in all the years I was in Va. I only met his son who is now 17.
When I got the obituary I got his mothers/sisters names. I called and left messages to a couple of people in the citie they lived which was a couple of hrs. from were I lived back then and not one called back. It was at the time it happened and I was devastated imagine them. They didn't know me at all why would they call this women whom they never met.
I was thinking of maybe looking up the names which I lost when I changed my e-mail address and trying again. Now it has been 2 yrs. and maybe they wouldn't mind hearing from me.
It is funny when you said now one rarely takes there own..... I always give out great advise but find myself never taking it. As for you saying you barely got thru 9 grade shocks me. You seem to be very intellegent but then again you don't have to finish school for that. Maybe you should return, its never to late.
Most of all I wanted to say ty for being there. I tried a while back to tell my good friend and she didn't know what to say to me. I could tell she felt ackward with the situation. I let it go and kept to myself. As for tomorrow I hope you have a wonderful, safe, and tranquil day. You deserve it.