People seem to think our tears and loss is different then "straight" folks. I have propbably a even # of both.  The hard part is when you have been a partner for 17 yrs as my self the support of "like" situation is few or no one has had a place to talk. I would love to talk and meet other widows and form a bond. i am lonely and sad inside as we had one of those really great relationships . We had…