My husband left me on Wednesday, Dec 23, 2009 at 4:35 p.m. In fact he went so quickly that he didn't even get to say, 'Bye' or 'I love You' to me or his children. He had to go because he didn't have any choice either but my orderly world crashed in a moment with his leaving us like that. I used to laugh and no reason all the time, my kids used to say that mom would make any sentence into a joke b…