I have been thinking about the idiotic things people have said to me. I am sure they all mean well but... so here they are: -"hey baby, wanna date" (at my husbands funeral-thanks husband's best man) -"don't worry you're a good lookin woman, you'll get a new husband" (at the funeral-thanks husband's godfather) -"at least you lost some weight" (funeral again - thanks mother) -"well, he was crema…