The Very 1st thing we all do when we lose someone is wonder if we couldve done more or even blame ourselves for anything but know that its apart of loss,were going to wish ,want and wonder,We Cant do that,Its not our falt and we have to no that.We have to Grieve how and when we want and be there for our family members that need us.When my brother passed,I couldnt cry,I had to be there for my mom,Dad,and Sister,It took 4 days and Then,I lost it,and i cryed for days at a time,And i still do.I could be having a ok day not thinking about much then BAM!!! Cryville.I do it about 3 or 4 times a week.You cry if you want,Ill be crying then ill Take a min and think of someting good like a trip we took to nashville and smile,It was the best time of my brother and i's life.I can miss him like crazy and remember the great times to,That keeps me from going 100% crazy..

The Very 1st thing we all do when we lose someone is wonder if we couldve done more or even blame ourselves for anything but know that its apart of loss,were going to wish ,want and wonder,We Cant do that,Its not our falt and we have to no that.We have to Grieve how and when we want and be there for our family members that need us.When my brother passed,I couldnt cry,I had to be there for my mom,Dad,and Sister,It took 4 days and Then,I lost it,and i cryed for days at a time,And i still do.I could be having a ok day not thinking about much then BAM!!! Cryville.I do it about 3 or 4 times a week.You cry if you want,Ill be crying then ill Take a min and think of someting good like a trip we took to nashville and smile,It was the best time of my brother and i's life.I can miss him like crazy and remember the great times to,That keeps me from going 100% crazy..

Hi Amber,My name is Donny,Im So sorry to here about your brother.I lost my Only brother 8months ago and Everyday things pop up that set me off to,A song because around where we live he was King of karaoke,A smell cause he wore the Worst ( POLO) lol it was Bad but out of nowhere ill smell it.The hurt will hurt because your heart is broken,It will heal in time but just know that it will take a long time,And Let it take time,People will say you need to move on.You move at your own pace.You heal at your own pace.The lose of a brother or sister is more painful then losing a mom,dad,grandparent or friend.A sibling is a part of you.I no my brother was a Big part of me and when he passed a Real big part of me died with him.I loved him so much and i always will, Just like you will Always love & Miss your brother and the hurt & Pain will always be there,Only you can control your feelings.and its up to you how long you grieve cause know one can tell you how you feel.I will say its a good thing to talk,Talk to friends, Family,even a Dr..  Im trying now to get in to talk to someone about me losing my brother.Dont hold anything in,It Will hurt you more in the long run,Please dont be embarrassed about talking to a Dr its ok and everyone has or will at some point in theyer lives. I hope anything ive said helps you at all.Please take care and if you ever need to talk im here,There are a lot of Great people on here that are more than happy to talk to you and help as much as they can.. Again Take care and God Bless..

 Donny D