Hey Alexis. I wanted to let u know that u are not alone!! My brother was murdered Nov.27,2009. One day Acer Thanksgiving, one day before my birthday! I had to talk to police verify it was my brother all while trying to hid it from my mom and son.. I had to identify his body and I can tell u, that was by far the hardest thing I have ever done in my life!! And I can tell u, it does get harder as time goes by. I don't know why but it did for me. Its been 2 yearsand I still have nightmares! I do have my good days now but never have a day I don't wake up and he be the first thing I think of! I think we all pray we wake up and the nightmare be over.. as if it were only a dream... but that will never happen. All I can do now is pray.. and stay busy and keep my faith in knowing that I will have him again one day!! Please know that u are not alone.. I am here!! U can contact me here, by email or on Facebook !! Look forward to hearing from u soon!! Hugs, Tina
Im so sorry sbout your brother . Reality really sets in as time goes by I lost my brother over four years ago it still hurts and always will but you learn to live your life.
I miss my brother everyday but I know he wouldn't want me to not live my life.
It can be such a helpless feeling and others dont really get it. I encourage talking with someone if you think you need too .
I wish I would have at times I started this
because I felt like there wasnt any where for people with sibling grief to connect.
All of us here are here for you :)