I also am so sorry about what happened to you and your family and your daughters death. We Both lost our child to a monster! I wish the creep that took my Laura's life had committed suicide! I am so terrified that he is going to plea bargain. We will find out on Friday. That is also Laura's birthday, she would be 27. I think about her constantly. I am sometimes a bit slow at answering and I apologize for taking so long to get back to you. I truly appreciate the notes I get from everyone on this site. We are all bonded, unfortunately! But I find ??? Comfort??? In knowing I am not crazy in how I feel and what I go through! I understand when you say you died also! That's how I feel too! I will never be how I used to be and I am not sure yet what road I am on....but were all in this together. Talk to you soon and let me know how you are.
My god dear you did nothing! I drag you down. I'm a mess I cant help myself how on earth can I expect to help anyone else. I love you dearly and my heart brakes for you I just don't know how to help. My doctor tells me my obsession hurts everyone around me but I don't know how to change it but I've tried so hard to focus on what I have and not what I've lost. However when I think of you I know everything you had was taken, I feel gulity and don't want to hurt you more. Love Arlene
Hi Anne; good to hear from you. How did it go for you today? Yes, it seems that mothers know other mothers. Get back with me soon. We need to keep abreast of others you are going through their season in life. This is a good place to come just to talk to others that we don't normally see every day. Take care
My daughter, Candace and her husband sometimes argued when they drank. They were drinking, or at least she was, the day she took the pills. When he called me, after the coroner already had, the first thing I said to him was, "did you kill her?" He was all incredulous and said, "no". I swear as God as my witness, I would have wanted to murder him. But since the girls loved their daddy so much, there was no way i would be able to take him from Candace's girls.
So sorry to hear about your precious daughter. Please know that we are all here for you. I lost my daughter, Melissa, 26 months ago from a brain aneursym. I can't imagine how hard it must be to deal with the circumstances of your daughter's death. Life doesn't make sense sometimes. I have been going to therapy since March 2009 ( four months after Melissa passed). I think I would be in much worse shape if I didn't decide to go for help. Life is so damn complicated and unfair. Just hang in there and write if you need a friend.
our son died 13 months ago, he lived next to us and worked on our dairy farm, he was my life, our farms future, so much is lost, sometimes i just cant breathe either, he had a daughter she is 27 months old and lives with us, she is my hope that things will get easier