On 10/24/2009 I lost my sister - she died of a heart attack.  It wasn't like we didn't know this would happen.  She had her first attack 13 years earlier.  I just didn't expect it to happen when it did.  I was suppose to come down to SC so we could "trick or treat", but I was sick and didn't feel up to the trip.  Instead we received a call from the coroner!  To make matters worse when my Mom and I were heading to the airport, I hit a deer!  Very unexpectedly on 7/24/2011 my brother was…