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Enuf.....from people who dont understand

Posted on May 13, 2011 at 3:57pm 0 Comments 0 Likes

The people on this site are great u guys all understand and never take it too far. But I am starting to get angry and people who have no idea what it feels like to live like this. The gifts that they bring with her colors or they just keep saying I dont know what to say but here. It happens when I at work...being at work is supposed to be a few hours away from reality of this situation. I need a break from wallowing...just laying in my bed hour after hour cuz I dont want to face the day… Continue

Murder----The most unfair to everyone

Posted on May 12, 2011 at 12:28am 2 Comments 0 Likes

My angel Micaela Costanzo murdered on March 3, 2011 by a school friend. Fast forward thru the arrest...drama...heartache of two months. May 3, 2011 Mickie's bday...planning on celebrating her with school mates at the "track" at the high school; just minutes prior to doing that...WHAM! There is a second person his fiancee arrested in connection with murder. I must hold it together to do the "party" and then find out whats going on. The next day media, media, media....before I can even…

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At 2:16pm on May 11, 2011, jill walters said…: Dearest Celia, This is your first cousin Jill, Aunt Gerri's girl, originally from Wisconsin. You may remember me but been a long time as traveling distances. I now live in Fla Keys. I recently heard of your loss ;(( She's our families loss as well. I'm sooo saddened. Words cant even express. I know a bit of what your going through, but not exactly. I almost lost my 18yr old 3 yrs ago. A man ran over him with a truck, 10 days after his 18th birthday. He was in a coma for a month and further recovery in the hosp. I told myself, Since God knows the beginning from the end... all I have to do is walk through it. I didnt know what was going to happen, possibly have to pull the plug... I want to let you know i am here for you! anytime! I'm glad Julie got a hold of you. I stumbled over this site . I've been trying to find your address to send you a card. I'm on facebook , if you want to catch me there and I can give you my ph # , etc. She was a gift and though shes earths loss, shes Heaven's gain. I'm sure the gift of life Micaela was to you and the family, friends and all that knew her, she was an inspiration to, will be a permanant impact in all that knew her, in each life and make this world a better place.Please give your Mom my condolences as well. God Bless you with His Peace and healing.

At 4:27am on April 28, 2011, Tami said…: Celia, I did do a search after I read your comments. I am so so sorry, This is so new for you. I am reaching 2 years, It is so hard, but I feel that we all must go on, even though it feels like your heart has been ripped apart, She will be a part of you forever, We will all stick by you through all of this, If you have any questions please feel free to ask them, some parents have had their chidren taken from them by another, so they will be able to answer questions better then others, dont be afraid, we are all loving and caring and this is like a second family here for you, sometimes your family members wont want to talk about it, but we will, and believe me, it helps! I am sorry you had to find this site but I am glad that you did. Much love going out to you and your family.

At 11:19am on April 26, 2011, Shirley Gutierrez said…: Dearest Celia,

I am so sorry! There are just no words but every mother & father on this site share your pain which is so horrible it defies description. I have lost 2 of my daughters in the last 2 years to cancer. I have been where you are now. It does get easier as time goes on but it is still with me constantly & there are days when I just don't believe it's real. One consolation is that you are going through the worst thing that can ever happen to you as a mother. Anything to come from now on doesn't matter very much. I think that's called "perspective." This site has helped me so much. Please keep writing.

Much love, Shirley

At 8:00am on April 26, 2011, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…: Celia,

I'm so sorry about the loss of your daughter. What a senseless and tragic way to lose your child.

I lost my 21 year old daughter, Autumn, on December 6, 2010. It's been a little over four months.

I have to agree with others. It feels like you're in a fog watching someone else living your life. My head still feels like it's full of cotton most days.

I got a book last week that has been helpful, I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye. The last two weeks have been the hardest for me and I ordered the book at that time. There are things in it that were very helpful and I've even highlighted parts so I can refer back to it when I need to.

I will say, I found this site within a couple weeks of losing my daughter and it has been so beneficial. Everyone on here knows how you feel. They have no expectations for you to "get over it" or anything like that. You can say whatever comes to your mind and no one judges you. I've received some good advice from people on here also. Who knows better than someone that has also lost a child?

I'm sending hugs to you!

At 7:55am on April 26, 2011, JoAnn Brozowski said…: Celia - I am so sorry for your loss. All of us here are walking the same path as you are. There is nothing that you are feeling or thinking or doing that we all haven't done as well. It is truly the only place where others understand even your darkest hours. Feel free to come to vent, to cry, to lash out at the injustice, anything you want. Someone will always be here to help you get up again.

JoAnn - Always Tyler's mom

At 1:14am on April 26, 2011, Tami said…: Celia, I am so so sorry for the loss of your Daughter, It is a road none of us could ever imagine being on. My son was in a motor cycle accident, I dont like to say this but it doesnt compare to if someone took his life, Is there any articles that I can read about what happened? We are all here for you, you are so fresh to this, you will need to vent and that is what we are here for, dont be afraid to say whatever is on your mind, we dont judge!

My prayers to you and your family

Tami

At 11:22pm on April 25, 2011, Jackie Jones said…: you will find help here. at first i wasnt sure that i would but the more i come here the more comfort i find. Its been three months this friday that i lost my only child Jim from an accidental death involving prescription drugs. going back to work is hard. i went back part time and worked up to full time. the first week i went back it was hard to focus at all then it gradually got better. well i guess you can say better for what the hell is we are dealing with. but they say i am strong but its a mask. i hope you find some solace here and we can all help eachother through this trying rest of our lives.