ericka, i understand your senseof guilt, but you meant him no harm on the contrary, and who is to say that if you didnt make him get help, he would of died anyway, most people dont when they get help,it is verry sad that he did , but as for my lost i also made her get help , she started getting help and one night got a flat tire crossed the highway and got killed bye two cars, she had just turn 30 and it has been 6 months today, i am also full of guilt and sadness and everything that comes with it. but the truth is we only try to help, with all good intentions, we did not want our love ones to die.bye the way she was my daughter, that i adored and still do.