Loss of an ex
I lost my very best friend on this earth on Dec 2 2009 at 9:30 am to cancer. He wasn't just my best friend he was my ex-husband. We had been married for 22 years and had 3 children and 5 grand children. He was only 56. We were still very best friends after 14 years of divorce. I loved that man and its hurting pretty bad right now. Because I am the ex his family, who I valued and remained very social with turned on me. They made me feel as though I shouldn't have been with him on his death bed, I was by his side till the end. He had a Harlot that would go home to her husband at night and leave my friend alone. She claimed to love him but would never commit to him and they all felt for her. I am so hurting. Even my own children have been spending more time in her presence than with me. I am feeling so hurt. Is this really normal to feel like this for an ex.. Our divorce was so friendly thats why we remained best friends. We were married 22 years and had 3 children. after all our time together we sort of got bored with each other. After we divorced he sent me an e-mail thanking me for having the courage to do what needed to be done. I had found someone else who made life exciting. We did marry 10 days after our divorce. But through it all we remained good friends. We would have him and his family over for outings, special events, holidays just to have them over. He would introduce himself to others in my and my husbands company as our husband-in law. How much more friendly can that be. I just dont understand his family turning on me and consoling the harlot. the harlot has been married twice and seeing my ex but never comitting so at the end of the day he was alone. I am so hurt.