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Help!! How do you go on with life after losing a loved one??

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 11:45pm 0 Comments 0 Likes

I lost my ex-husband, who I was still dating and don't know why he was my ex really, on October 18, 2009. His funeral was on the 21st, my birthday. He was killed in an auto accident unexpectedly. I am having a hard time dealing with it. He was my best friend and was always there for me no matter when or what it was I needed. He always told me how much he loved me and worshiped me and I see now that he really did. I did not see how much he did before and all he wanted was for us to be married… Continue

How do you deal with not having your loved one anymore?

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 12:53pm 0 Comments 0 Likes

I lost my ex-husband, who I was still dating and don't know why he was my ex really, on October 18, 2009. His funeral was on the 21st, my birthday. He was killed in an auto accident unexpectedly. I am having a hard time dealing with it. He was my best friend and was always there for me no matter when or what it was I needed. He told always told me how much he loved me and worshiped me and I see now that he really did. I did not see how much he did before and all he wanted was for us to be… Continue

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At 2:47am on April 4, 2012, rayhan perry said…: It hurt to see he kept every picture of me at his old room.at his parents. There were.no other puctures of any woman. We loved each other so much. Why couldnt we have gotten it right? I feel like it is my fault because had he been home with us the way he wanted to be,, he would not have been where he was and gotten shot. I am a junior at a (the typos are cuz I am on my cell and crying) Univ in the top ten and two yrs shy of law school. I cant do this. I need him so much.

At 2:40am on April 4, 2012, rayhan perry said…: My story is similar. We divorced a yr and a half ago but were still seeing each other. A month ago we buried him. I cant do this. We had two kids (one non biological to him) but he was in his life since he was three. He will be 15 next month. I cant breathe sone days. Why did I divorce him when all he wanted was to stay married? I was hurt that he had female friends but I know tgat is childish because I divorced him. What devastated me was hearing my family and his family tell me how he felt NOW. Hearing my family say he would have heart to heart talks with them about how much he loved me and his family say he would break down crying over the divorce makes me just want to check out but I have our kids who need me. I need him so bad. He was always there for me and never left me alone when I needed him. His family hates me because he would tell them our fights but he would argue with them (his one other child from a previous relationship) said over me. He would say things like he didnt know why he lived me so mucch and I wish I told him how much I loved him. He did cheat while married to me and that helped with the divorce but he was my heart. I never got counseling and would say awful things to him that woukd hurt him and I didnt mean them. I love him and I want him back. He was my husband and I will be buries on top of hom when God calls me. His parents always recognized me as his wife which is why tgey allowed me to do my plot on his.

At 3:05am on February 16, 2011, courtney lee gregory said…: i am so sorry i may not be much help i cant tell you how to get through the hard times but to try to stay strong i just lost my boyfriend ryan of 6 years we have two children shifton 3 revinn 1 in a horrible accident dec. 10 2010 six days before revinn truned one took hour a thrity min to get him out he was the only one injred he went to work and never made it back home he was my best friend great father and most of all my true love we would have married but never cared to rush it we were happy then bammmmmmmmmmm the most fucked up call from ryans mom telling me i just fell to the ground even thoough i know he is with us as our angle but its still so unreal horrible i cry everyday sometimes with anger im lost i have our boys that i have to stay strong for now its all up to me unfair i am truly sorry for your loss

At 11:56am on February 27, 2010, Kenyada Mabone said…: Hello Janie this is Kenyada and as I was reading your message I started crying. I am so glad that God has put you and I together for these moment and I will try to answer you question as best as I know how. all I can say is WOW!, I think a piece of you did know what he wanted and at the same time you questioned yourself that it did not go well then and why would it now that we are both ex. I feel the same way as you, my hubby was my best friend too, but he was also God's best friend and his time was up. so in other words where you got back with him or not as husband and wife nothing could have stopped God if his time was up. I don't blame God for taking my husband I just wanted Karl to pass at home had I known, Karl knew but I did not. I know you feel like if you just could have said (Yes) before this accident that would have meant the world to you, but it would not have mattered it was God's turn and please understand that, his power is more then powerful of any of us and it is what it is. I put my husband in the hosp on january 10th 2010 and he passed in my hands feb 10th at 1:00pm I was there when he took his last breath I witness the sound that he did and I tell you I don't know how to act without him. he and I were soul mates for the last 36 years. Janie we will see our love one again. God said that he will put his children's on earth to do his work and he did not promise us that when he calls us back home that we would not have pain, he said that if you are ashamed of me he would be ashamed so please don't question your feeling on this matter it happen and now we have to find a way to get better I hurting to. if you want to stay in touch with me please do so, I have started talking to other people about pain so please lets stay in touch I would like that any time. love and Blessing Kenyada