jeanette: i tell people what i feel. when i felt george next to me it was the best feeling i had because he could not be here in body but he was here in spirit. this is why this website is here i went to the cementary sunday and i took out picturers of our grand children my sister and her friend let me have the time i needed with him i talked to him and showed him the twins picture age 4 and my grand daughter age 10 on my cell phone i have picturers of the new baby my grand daughters little brother i showed him them and told him how they were doing. i feel i have to keep george updated with what is going on in my life jeanette no shame in what we feel expecially when we are lucky to feel the arms of our loved ones you take care and i hope you have more feelings from your spouse hugs are good
Dear Jeanette, My husband,Tim, and I married when we were 18 and 19 and went together all through school. It is hard and I think you are doing great. Yes, I guess you will always feel married to him and I think I will feel the same way also. We did have almost 48 years of a happy marriage and at my best times I feel grateful that we had so many good years, at my worst times I just miss him. Thinking of you.
Thank you for you comments. I am going to see a counselor today at our local Hospice organization. I'm hoping to find some answers from her and guidelines so I can help others. I am disable and it's hard for me to do physical things but maybe she will have some ideas on what I could do.Again, thank you for your comments and caring for a total stranger.
Love & God bless, Pat in Texas
Jeanette, my name is Anita. I wish I had the magic words, wisdom or know how to get you thru this. My fiance died Oct 26th from a plane crash in Corpus Chrity, Tx. It left me with nothing financially, physically, and emotionally. I can't control any of my moods get Malcolm out of my head for even 5 min. You have to care and love yourself enough to know, get up, get dressed, go outside (even for 5 min) eat anything and just let go. Cry, scream, laugh (yes and try really hard to talk yourself out of the guilt). We have to go thru this. Talk about him all the time to everyone cause you will laugh about the good times and don't believe for 1 min that you are being a burdon. Rent all comedy movies only for entertainment but please eat. I may lose everything, my home, financial living (fiance worked and I helped take care of him and his hectic life of needin to take care of the world), our property in Tenn. (we were going to settle there and get married) and my Malcolmby the hands of a pilot who thought he was invinsible or he wouldn't have flown in the nasty weather taking the love of my life. This is a brief moment of inspiration from me yet, I am crying. Please help me to help you. I am here, praying to God and Malcolm to take care of my future and I sure beg a lot. God right now is saving me. Please pay attention to the good moments and hang tight to them as long as your mind will let you. Fight for them.