I am so sorry but you know, that does not help. It is sad but it does not. My sister died May 29, 2009. I hurt everyday. I can tell you this, I can go an entire day without crying now. It has taken soooo long. You wil NEVER get over the pain, you will start learning how to get though it in a better wat each day. This site helped me so much. If I could be there for everyone I would, I am so sorry. I know the pain, you just feel as though you can't go on but somehow you do. My love is with you...
Marcella
I am so sorry but you know, that does not help. It is sad but it does not. My sister died May 29, 2009. I hurt everyday. I can tell you this, I can go an entire day without crying now. It has taken soooo long. You wil NEVER get over the pain, you will start learning how to get though it in a better wat each day. This site helped me so much. If I could be there for everyone I would, I am so sorry. I know the pain, you just feel as though you can't go on but somehow you do. My love is with you...
Marcella
hi ,i just lost my twin,everyone in the family wants to keep it bottled up,except me. it has been since august 21st.,she was my twin,6 minutes older than me. her and my three girls are the closest in the world to me.we both had three girls,and they were all the same age,they were starting to get married and have children,but now it is cut short.we were both supposed to go thru this together.i miss her soooo much,i cant stand it.
hi ,i just lost my twin,everyone in the family wants to keep it bottled up,except me. it has been since august 21st.,she was my twin,6 minutes older than me. her and my three girls are the closest in the world to me.we both had three girls,and they were all the same age,they were starting to get married and have children,but now it is cut short.we were both supposed to go thru this together.i miss her soooo much,i cant stand it.
Hi Jenny,
I feel the very same way, it has been 2 years and 4 months since I lost my beautiful brother am trying to keep myself so busy that have no me time, which is wrong but am feeling so alone without my one and only brother to talk with, he was my best friend, not fair why did they get taken away? our brothers and sisters were so special, there will never be answers for our sorrow. We have to always remember them and the special moments shared . We are here for each other.
Take care Mazza
Im so sorry I have bad days and just general hard times and people in this group really get it feel freee to contact me when your needing a ear to listen , Hang in there .
Lisa
Jenny, I am sorry for the loss of both your sister and your father. The pain, the grief and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable when we lose a loved one in death. God's word the Bible can not only comfort us but it can help us understand why we die as well as how both God and Jesus feel about death. We can be comforted by John 5:28, 29 which says "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment." Comforting to know there will be a day when all the dead will be resurrected.
Why do we die? Romans 5:12 says, "That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned." Our inherited sinful condition originates with the first man Adam and is the reason we get sick and die.
Lastly, how does God feel about death. 1 Cor. 15:26 tells us, "As the last enemy, death is to be brought to nothing." So God sees death as an enemy that will be defeated forever. God is always there to listen to us and provides us with the answers to many of our questions in His word, the Bible.
Lisa thank you for listening see that was the way my sister was, could talk and she would listen. I do feel cheated too, the days are mixed together and I am not understanding what I am doing or where I am to go. I miss her so much, this time last year she was here and now she is not. I want to know why?
You feel cheated dont you? I do
I'm sorry for your pain I wish I could take your pain and everyones pain away. I'm here if you need to vent . I feel as though I'm walking through a fog and trying to make it through to the other side thats clear again but I'm just not there . I'm here for you
Letting go seems to be the hardest thing to do . I don't want to let go of my brother and some people just dont get what your going through . I miss him and I cant bring him back and it makes me mad and just in a state of disbelief. How could this have happened . no do overs no chance to talk again it stinks. Im here for you
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I feel the very same way, it has been 2 years and 4 months since I lost my beautiful brother am trying to keep myself so busy that have no me time, which is wrong but am feeling so alone without my one and only brother to talk with, he was my best friend, not fair why did they get taken away? our brothers and sisters were so special, there will never be answers for our sorrow. We have to always remember them and the special moments shared . We are here for each other.
Take care Mazza
Lisa
Why do we die? Romans 5:12 says, "That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned." Our inherited sinful condition originates with the first man Adam and is the reason we get sick and die.
Lastly, how does God feel about death. 1 Cor. 15:26 tells us, "As the last enemy, death is to be brought to nothing." So God sees death as an enemy that will be defeated forever. God is always there to listen to us and provides us with the answers to many of our questions in His word, the Bible.
I'm sorry for your pain I wish I could take your pain and everyones pain away. I'm here if you need to vent . I feel as though I'm walking through a fog and trying to make it through to the other side thats clear again but I'm just not there . I'm here for you
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