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At 11:21am on December 20, 2010, kathy obiedzinski said…: kay: i to have grandchildren i have twins 3 1/2 and a granddaughter which is 10 when george passed the boys were young but you know they still remember their pop pop i show them his picture and ask who is that they think pop pop is sleeping my granddaughter was taking is very bad she was worried about her nana but you know you have to be strong and make the best out of what we have. i am praying for everyone i have a special prayer for those who just lost their spouse and december is anniversity's birthdays that so i pray everything goes ok for all

At 1:21pm on November 8, 2010, Ellen Brant said…: Kay, My heart bleeds with intense sadness to hear the story about Joe and know what I went through with Doug and surely so many others of us before have dealt with and some have yet to deal with. My pain is so intense. I do believe in your case the MDs should have proceeded with tests that were routine before any type of surgery and allowed you the knowledge of those results. You may make a list of what you were told and things that you were not before deciding to persue any legal aid. Perhaps you can get someone to assist you that has been through the similar footwork. I am keeping you close in prayer that whatever choice you make you receive peace and that Joe is at Peace regardless. Now for Kay to be at peace ...that is where I too am baffled and stuggling. Not even an attorney can wave a wand for that unless he brings Doug back... HUGS

At 1:21pm on November 8, 2010, Ellen Brant said…: Kay, My heart bleeds with intense sadness to hear the story about Joe and know what I went through with Doug and surely so many others of us before have dealt with and some have yet to deal with. My pain is so intense. I do believe in your case the MDs should have proceeded with tests that were routine before any type of surgery and allowed you the knowledge of those results. You may make a list of what you were told and things that you were not before deciding to persue any legal aid. Perhaps you can get someone to assist you that has been through the similar footwork. I am keeping you close in prayer that whatever choice you make you receive peace and that Joe is at Peace regardless. Now for Kay to be at peace ...that is where I too am baffled and stuggling. Not even an attorney can wave a wand for that unless he brings Doug back... HUGS

At 10:42am on October 31, 2010, Kay Arcuni said…: Thank you Barb, I know it's a process but in this case I have to sell this stuff. When Joe passed we had no insurance and I am paying the rent on the unit he was working out of. I still haven't told the landlord he's gone yet because I don't want them to lock the place up on me. I also have a garage at home full of tools, which I probably will never get rid of, at least not until my grandson get old enough to decide weather he wants to work wood like Grampi or not. The whole thing just stinks, and it's so unfair that we have to be talking to one another because of our circumstances.

At 6:34pm on October 30, 2010, bc said…: I know how you are feeling Kay. When Brad left I had to sell all his tools that we used together restoring classic cars. Everytime one sold I cried. I still have things left but I don't want to get rid of them right now. And his closet still has a lot of things in it, everytime I open it, his scent is in there, that's my "haven" when I need to feel closer to him. Take a break, things don't have to be done all at once. Baby steps.....

At 5:36pm on October 17, 2010, Kathy King Kates said…: I thought I read somewhere that your husband passed on August 17 so I hope yu are doing okay today. It's amazing how long the # 17 in your case and in my case 25 for Feb 25 sticks with us for sometime. I read in one of the articles here that we need to move fast to the happy celebrations like birthdays and anniversaries and try to get away from the "death day". I know that is hard to do and I do believe they mean once we get past the pain of the firsts for all of these events. My mom passed 3 years ago and my sister & I celebrate here birthday and mothers day together and try to forget January 11 as much as possible. It will eventually help. Prayers with you today and lots of hugs.

At 12:50pm on September 15, 2010, kathleen caylor said…: Sorry if I scared you.I respect the anonominity of bereaved spouses.

At 4:56pm on September 14, 2010, kathleen caylor said…: If you would like to talk,call me at 693 1499

At 4:54pm on September 14, 2010, kathleen caylor said…: Kay,I'm a newcomer in Alva.Only lived here 31 years!We lived in N.Ft.Myers before we built our house.Been in Fl.for 37 years.Are you on the bereaved spouse page on facebook?