Hello Kimm - this is a good site where you will find the comfort that you need from some of the members who have and are going through the same emotional changes as you.  It is so nice to see you have taken the time out to seek out those who share your same experiences.

I lost my brother in 1993 - yes, I was in pain but when I looked to my parents for comfort - I can't explain the emotional pain they were feeling.  It was a shock to all of us.  He had so much life; so much fun - a loving spirit.   I can only try to understand the pain - my parents were in so much pain.  It was as if there was a hole in their heart.    However, with the support of family, friends, associates and some quiet time that they spent together as a couple - they found the calmness they needed in their heart.  So, I hope you enjoy the exchange of experiences here and the comfort you will find. (Rev 21:3,4)

hi kimm no one wants to be here but we are.its sad there are so many of us.i have found comfort here so please feel free to just say how you feel good or bad we are here.i loss my son at the age of 2.my brother christopher just passed last november5th my heart was broken.he was my only brother we were close.life is just not fair.hugs.