Lori, we all ask the same question why us, we will probably never know the answer, I like you are having a very difficult time, but one thing I do try to do is not separate myself from those family members & friends that want to be there for me, sometimes not all times it helps a little, I started on anti depression medication, have you considered taking any meds to help you cope with your loss?, I am willing to try anything except going to a psychologist, because nobody will take away what I am feeling, I hope you can find some comfort in this site, keep coming back & let us all know your feelings, even if it's just to vent, sending prayers, we all need them.

Elvira

Hi Lori, I know your having a difficult time, as we all are, just wanted to let you know, I'm here to listen, whenever you want to vent. We are all doing our best to get by each day, and yes it is a struggle. Our lives have forever changed, I try to think of we're do I go from here, and I have no answers. I only hope it will get easier, but I have my doubts right now..I'm in Fla, now so get in touch if you want to. Sending prayers and hugs to help you through, and thinking of you,and your sorrow. Talk soon

Lori,  I am so sorry for your loss.  How devastating this tragedy is for you.  I lost my husband 11 months ago in a car accident while traveling abroad and it's been hard for me to accept what happened .  I can only imagine what you are going through.  You've come to the right place.  Keep posting your thoughts, fears, anxieties and whatever else you want to say.  We are all here to help you.

Marie

Hi Lori, I'm in Melbourne now are you close to me. I am going through the heartache every day. It's so hard, but I'm trying my best. I hope you are doing ok and would love to hear from you, so we can maybe comfort each other..talking with everyone in the same situation seems to help, as they can understand the loss and pain. Hope to hear from you soon. Sending my prayers and hugs to you

Lori, I am so heart sick for you, I hope that you can find something on our site that can help you, even if it's just a place for you to vent, please feel free to say what's on your mind, you can also email me privately at atonsgirl@aol.com

Tami
Administrator "Loss of a child"