I lost my wonderful Brad just over a month ago.  In our 34 years together, I never saw him sick until the last 8 days of his life.  Living without him is excruciating I have attended a Hospice bereavement group, but they are not "my kind of people".  I am fortunate to have a lot of support, but sometimes feel that my grief is considered insignificant because we are gay.  I don't know how to go on... 

Pat Habkirk