Your daughter was so pretty, I lost my son november of last year he was 17 he was driving home from a friends house at 25 feet from where he would have turned into our street his vehicle went into the other lane and it was a head on collision we don't know what happened we are still waiting on autospy and toxiology reports, how old was your daughter, she looks about 9 I bet she was daddy litle girl
Thank you your daughter is beautiful too Samantha has a beautiful angel to hang out with. It has been 3 years for me and i see it has been a little longer for you, the pain does not ease at all, but it become numb, I deal with it by cebrating her life but it seems like yesterday. I have lost all my close family, but wow this is something that should not happen, but we have each other to talk to to life are spirits.
I wish I knew what to say, what advice to share, how to answer that type of situation. Some times tho, our surviving children have the answers. ME..I would tell the truth.... "Tripplets". and if the other people ask "the" question, tell the truth. Let them react to the answer. Maybe with time, your responses will help you and your family heal. It's just my thoughts, and I'm no expert, just another trying to cope another day, another situation.
How heart breaking. I was spared Jakes suffering as he died on scene at the accident site. Immediately after he lost control of his bike and crashed through some trees, the first car to pulled over was a couple and their kids, a he was a retired policeman and she was a trauma nurse. Both trained in cpr. The told us they knew he was gone, but performed cpr until an ambulance arrived anyways. I am thankful that he died instantly...at least I hope that he didn't suffer even for 1 second before he was gone. I think your situation had to have been tortuous, although I would have given anything to hold Jacob in my arms and comfort him right at that moment, I don't think I could have handled the choices you had to make. I would say that you are very strong, but I have just been telling people how much I HATE that statement....so I will say you are a survivor, that is the best we can do, survive.
How heart breaking. I was spared Jakes suffering as he died on scene at the accident site. Immediately after he lost control of his bike and crashed through some trees, the first car to pulled over was a couple and their kids, a he was a retired policeman and she was a trauma nurse. Both trained in cpr. The told us they knew he was gone, but performed cpr until an ambulance arrived anyways. I am thankful that he died instantly...at least I hope that he didn't suffer even for 1 second before he was gone. I think your situation had to have been tortuous, although I would have given anything to hold Jacob in my arms and comfort him right at that moment, I don't think I could have handled the choices you had to make. I would say that you are very strong, but I have just been telling people how much I HATE that statement....so I will say you are a survivor, that is the best we can do, survive.
I am sorry for your loss. I lost my only child Jacob on 3/11/07. I didn't think I had enough time with him, and He was 2 months shy of his 21st birthday...I am sure you feel that even more as she was only 10. What happened to your daughter? My son died in a Motorcycle accident.
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I am sorry for your loss. I lost my only child Jacob on 3/11/07. I didn't think I had enough time with him, and He was 2 months shy of his 21st birthday...I am sure you feel that even more as she was only 10. What happened to your daughter? My son died in a Motorcycle accident.