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Another year has started. It has been two years since I lost my husband of 42 years. I can't say it has gotten any better, I know he's not suffering anymore , he died peacefully I am grateful for that. I get mad at him sometimes then I cry but I know he's still with me I can feel him looking over my shoulder and watching over me. As one of his doctors told me after he passed; he'll always be with me in my heart. This is what gets me through each day.
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Paulette, Had you on my heart today. Hope that you and yours were blessed with a happy holiday season. I know that the holidays are always so very hard . . especially the first ones!! Please know that you have been in my prayers. Sorry I haven't written in a while, but have had some medical problems myself. Am much better now. My Junior passed away 19 months ago today. I miss him as much today as I ever have. Seems that I have more good days than bad now, but today was hard. I drove to the cemetery; just as I got to his marker a song came on the radio that made me just sob -- You've Made Me So Very Happy by Blood, Sweat, and Tears. I sat in the car crying, just hoping that I let him know how very happy he made me, and hoping that I made him just a little happy, too!! :) We always had such a great time together!! I thank God that He let me experience Junior's love, kindness, the security I felt when we were together (always!!), and most of all to show me how it feels to really love someone and them love you in return!!! Hope that this finds you well. Know that you are in my prayers, and please take care of you! I'm here any time you need to talk.
Hugs!
Deb
If he had been taken by cancer or a heart attack it seems somehow different, less preventable.
I guess it doesn't seem like it was his time.
I imagine that is what car accident victims feel like.
My husband watched his mother pass from pancratic cancer at 64 years old and he hated seeing her in so much pain, knowing she was going to die, that's not easy either.
I thank you for responding, sometimes it feels like no one can know how I feel, but when I found this site, it was really amazing how many people are hurting and missing people in their lives. It now includes me.
I am trying to be supportive of my children, I have 3 sons, 19, 24 and 27. The 27 yr old and his wife just had a baby girl on Feb 19th, so I am now a Grandmother, it was so wonderful to hold her , such a precious new life. My husband was so looking forward to being grandparents, it was bittersweet without him, for my son too.
I can only try to be there for them and my new granddaughter.
I am sure you are happy to have a son and daughter in law and grandchildren.
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